Dont know if im gay...

[Jmansoccer6296]

Ive been very confused lately, and i dont know wat to do. Im a boy, and im 14. Its hard to experiment cuz i dont know of any other gay or bi kids in my grade. I dont know how i feel about either sex. Kids would always make fun of me and call me gay, and i would always deny it. But, i dont know how i really do feel. ANy help will be appreciated!

[Ryan1]

First off Welcome to Th! Why not introduce yourself in the Arrivals & Departures forum section so the community can recognize you!

As for your question, keep living man and you'll soon find out. Your still in your early teens so this is something your going to find out as you go through high school and early years of collage. just keep in mind people will call you something so much you start to believe it.

Aside from sexuality don't let others bring you down with rude comments because you can only be called stupid so many times before you start to believe it.

Seeing as how your 14 will this be your first year of Highschool?

[Jmansoccer6296]

Sorta, well im only going into 8th (i didnt fail a grade btw) but in my school there isnt middle school, 7th through 12th is all one builing. And thanks

[Jmansoccer6296]

But, like, ive been attracted to boys in my past.

[Astrael]

Yeah, as someone who's only 14, you still have a lot of growning up to do. No offence by that but people your age don't normally know who/what they like. Heck I still don't and I'm 17! Just sit back, relax and take life how it comes because you have plenty of time to figure stuff out. Heck, I know people who came out of the closet at 17! And if you do decide to come out and expiriment I'm sure there is some kind of GSA club in your school so it should be easy to get involved and get to know people who are gay/bi, that way you can make new friends and know people who are in the same position as you.

[darkangeljbm]

only you can firguer that out. Every guy i know is curios about other guys in some way or another. I would wait untill you are a little older and date a girl or two and then try to find a guy or two and see how you feel. You may be bi or strait or gay but experiment ( safely know the person or persons Well and use any type of protection depending on what is going on ) With both boys and girls. I know guys that were gay all there lives dated many guys then the fell in love with a girl . I also know a guy that hated gays and now has a partner that he loves with all his heart. You are still young and i wouldn't limit who i dated by what i may or may not be. Be open mined about yourself and remember if you try to be what other want you to be you will never be happy.

[Jmansoccer6296]

Thanks everyone