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First same-sex hook up, now im a little confused? -
February 28th 2011, 01:33 PM
I'm not sure where to put this, here I guess, IDK.
anyway Saturday night, I was at a friends house with 4 other girls, and we were horrendously crunk, having a blast. We were in my friends room and we were attempting to roll a joint (hahahaha) and one of my friends (who used to go out with the girl whose house we are were at) came over to me and asked if I had ever hooked up with a girl (which I hadnt) then started to hook up with me. I went along with it for a couple of seconds, but realising everyone was watching I stopped. I told her I didnt "swing that way" even though I probably would have kept hooking up with her if we hadnt been watched. I dont know what to think, I guess I liked it, it was waaaaay different to hooking up with a guy, but it was nice? I dont know what I am even asking from you guys here, I am just very confused. "Do not regret anything. Every choice, fuck up, spoken word, experience and emotion has brought you to this very moment. It has shaped exactly who you are. Do not regret who you are. You are unique. No one in the world is like you. In this sense, we are alone. Yet for this very reason, we all have one thing in common. Don't waste who you are, be everything you can be. You can achieve your dreams, you just have to genuinely try."
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Re: First same-sex hook up, now im a little confused? -
February 28th 2011, 01:48 PM
Okay, my first piece of advice is just to take a deep breath and relax. It is not neccissary to put a lable on yourself, and it is definitly nothing you should be worried about. You liked it? Well, fine. There are no rights or wrongs, and no one can tell you what you can and cannot like. Maybe it was just a one time thing, maybe it will happen again. My advice is not to worry about it, and to just enjoy what life hands you. And don't worry about lables.
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Re: First same-sex hook up, now im a little confused? -
March 1st 2011, 01:15 AM
Live your life and be happy. =]
If being with guys but hooking up with girls makes you happy, then go for it. If being with girls but hooking up with guys makes you happy, that's great too. If it's the last and only time you do it, then that's perfectly cool too. =P "Although only breath, words which I command are immortal." Sappho
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