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seducing straight bff - March 2nd 2011, 12:30 AM

im 16. im bi curious. and i kinda like my best friend, and want to experiment with her a little bit.

has anyone ever tried and succeeded into talking a straight friend into making out just to try it without saying they are bi or lesbian. or curious.

i need help.

we did 3 way kiss with a guy once and we liked it soo yeah im confused? lol
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Re: seducing straight bff - March 2nd 2011, 01:36 AM

Ask her if she wants to experiment, but I'd advise against seducing. Sounds strange.

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Re: seducing straight bff - March 2nd 2011, 02:25 AM

If you know she's single, why would you want to "seduce" her. Just seems like something a bad friend would do imo, thats like trying to feed a vegetarian pork because you think they'd like it
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Re: seducing straight bff - March 2nd 2011, 04:11 AM

I think seduction's probably not the right way to go about it. Double X made a very good suggestion when he suggested asking her flat out; then she'd know for sure you were interested in experimenting a little bit. If you're too nervous to do that, maybe you could just somehow float the topic of bicuriousness into conversation...that might lead to something. Of course, it might not, but it's worth a shot if you can't bring yourself to ask her directly.

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Re: seducing straight bff - March 2nd 2011, 09:30 PM

How about: "What do you think of bisexual people?"

and, "Would it creep you out if I told you I was bisexual?"

and, "If you ever wanted to experiment, I would be willing."

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Re: seducing straight bff - March 2nd 2011, 09:50 PM

yeah I agree with what everyone else has to say. You might harm your friendship if you do anything crazy. Are you sure she is straight? If she is I would just leave it alone, friendship is more important especially if you arent quite sure of you sexuality yet and EVEN more so because she is your best friend. Think about your friendship and weigh how she is gonna react to this... But seriously tell her that you are bi or at least hint at it first
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Re: seducing straight bff - March 8th 2011, 01:58 PM

I'm not sure if you will be successful doing that. As others said your risking your friendship. Even if they agree, things might seem weird or awkward after for awhile.
Your best bet is to just ask them how they feel about bisexuals and gently tell them what you would like to try. If they say no, then your done. You can't make someone see you in that way.

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