teased

[Kira-Kira]

ok i decided to come out being bi now ppl r teasing me how do i stop them its really getting to me

[Kuraku]

You need to tell someone!
No one has the right to mock someones orientation!

[BeMySafteyNet]

Well from experience, don't let it get to you honestly. The same happens to me every day, but it is getting better slowly. Make one good comment to them and they'll usually shut up I usually go with the one like " do you have to walk with my legs? no. So you should have no bearing over who I love. " or something like that lol. I forget. But the more they tease you it's just the more of a reaction they want out of you, and if you deprive them of that they get bored.

[Sythan]

Hello Coco, im Nick the Activities Director for the Granada High School Gay-Straight Alliance. I would like to ask you, is the teasing you are expiriencing, do you really think its teasing or do you think its bullying?

I ask because if you are being bullied because you are gay, thats something I can help you with.

[Kira-Kira]

idk they just everytime i hug a girl there like oh shes got a girlfriends hmm i wonder how girls have sex lets ask then they will ask me and just taught me over it its so annoying and the worst part my sis goes along with it i hate it

[TheCrowing]

Tell your sister that you hate it, then. You have to vocalize your concerns. Nobody deserves to sit around and take any form of bullying or negative teasing. I've been made fun of and teased for six years before I finally stepped up. And I honestly can say that it's better to stand up for yourself now then let it all build up to deal with later.

[Sythan]

Originally Posted by crazy_redhead

idk they just everytime i hug a girl there like oh shes got a girlfriends hmm i wonder how girls have sex lets ask then they will ask me and just taught me over it its so annoying and the worst part my sis goes along with it i hate it

So they arent really doing it to try and hurt you, there just doing it to try and be funny.

Still not acceptable, explain that its getting annoying and really, really old.

[Kira-Kira]

ya ireally not sure but i will tell them

[Reverie.]

Those people sounds really petty to me. I'm sorry you're experiencing these things, no-one should have to just because of the people they are attracted to. Your sexuality is your concern and not theirs, and them teasing you over it is absolutly wrong. Just remember, you're the bigger person because you accepted it and had the courage to come out, which is a big thing!
You should tell someone about the teasing/bullying though. I know it may seem pretty small at the moment, but things can esculate and no-one would want that for you or anyone. Let someone know and they can keep and eye out for you.
I hope I've helped. PM me if you need anything else. Keep strong!

[luvflamingos]

I don't have any advice Coco sorry. I wanted to say I'm sorry you're being teased. I wish people didn't judge others so much.

[AleX-24-_-]

just try to be happy with who you are maybe, you can reason with them, but do not result to violence because then they will become more homo-phobic

[Ancora Imparo]

Hey Coco,

I'm really sorry to hear that you are being teased by these really ignorant and narrow minded people. Nobody should have to go through what you're going through right now but at the end of the day these people unfortunatly do exist in the world and it's impossible to please everyone while living the life that makes you feel most comfortable. I know it's difficult but all you can really do is try to ignore them and rise above it because when it comes down to it, you're a much better person than them as you have found and accepted who you truly are. People can be cruel and they do tend to react out of spite towards things that they don't understand. While there are people teasing you about coming out, I bet there are also so many people who aren't out about their sexuality and really admire your strength for coming out. I hope that things get better for you soon and if you ever want to talk then feel free to PM or VM me at any time as I'm always more than happy to talk about everything and anything.

Take care and try to keep your head held high. <3

[Kira-Kira]

thanks everyone i really aprecciate it *hugs*