Confused

[Miss Violet Sparrow]

Well, first off, I hope this belongs here. Second, sorry if this seems stupid to anyone but yeah.

Well, for a while now I've been thinking I might be bisexual. But I'm not entirely certain. And I know I'm a little young yet to know for sure. I just need advice.

Okay, so I'm not really sure what this means. I love my best friend. I'm not sure if it is just a friend crush or what. It is making me question my sexuality though.

I'm not sexually attracted to girls. I'd much rather date guys. But part of me feels attracted to girls... it's a small part but still there. This sounds kind of stupid now. I don't really want to talk to anyone about this, not yet anyway. And I don't really want to experiment. It is just so confusing. I don't know what to do.

[aidensmommy]

As you said you are young to really stress much into, many times girls feel a special closeness to another just for the sheer comfort of the relationship they have, but other times it could be more than a comfort, just relax and explore your sexuality at a pace you are ready and don't stress too much about it in the mean time.

[TheCrowing]

Best thing to remember is to be happy. If you think you might have feelings, then go for it. It doesn't hurt to try new things. Could be a girl crush, could be much more than that. You'll never really know how you feel about girls until you try it.

And who knows... Maybe you'll find out someday that you don't like people based on gender, but instead you like them for who they are.

You have time to figure things out. =] Just don't do anything that you aren't comfortable with.

[Ellen]

Nah, that's not stupid at all. There are some that suggest that we are all bisexual just to different degrees; I, personally, take this stance. If you are unsure about your sexuality, I would suggest simply just going out with people that make you happy. I suggest just giving it some time.