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I think that I may be Bi-curious? -
March 7th 2011, 02:14 AM
So since i started working i have caught myself looking at this girl that i work with(she is bi). She knows that i often look at her and we joke around about it. Well my Friend (who is the same age as me,17) is bi. She was visiting her mom and came over one night to watch a movie, well i think that i like her.. i really wanted to kiss her i just dont know if i would do anything sexual with her. We have kissed befor like 4 years ago. I have always had this thought in my head but when she came over for the movie, the feelings ,i guess u could call them, kinda felt diffrent. I have a boyfriend and he watched the movie with us.. and after she left asked me if i was bi cuz of the way i was looking at her. and i told him no. I still love him, but i also think that i may have feelings for this friend. I told her about it and she was totally cool with.. she told me to take time to think about it and we would see what goews from there.. Im just really confused and would like some more advice. please help me on this.. idk what to do. ):
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Re: I think that I may be Bi-curious? -
March 7th 2011, 04:18 AM
Hey, I'm sorry you're feeling confused. I just went through some struggles figuring out my sexuality not too long ago and found it to be both confusing and frustrating myself.
Giving yourself time to think about this stuff and talking about it is key. I would personally recommend telling your boyfriend how you feel if you feel that he would be understanding about it. If you cannot do that, I would recommend talking to someone else that you trust or to continue to talk to your friend about it. I think open communication about this stuff is key to remaining sane while figuring things out. Good luck 
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Re: I think that I may be Bi-curious? -
March 7th 2011, 10:33 PM
Take plenty of time to think about it! Unfortunately, sexuality is kind of a gray area, no one can definitely tell you exactly what you are all the time. You can be attracted to someone without being sexually attracted to them. It took me a looong time to figure out my own sexuality. And I still wonder sometimes.
Just give yourself some time. Tell your boyfriend if you want to, just because he's your boyfriend doesn't mean you have to spill every secret you have to him. But if you think it will help to have open communication with him about this, then definitely go for it
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