Well…I came out to my mom :/

[Kuraku]

Today I told my mom that I was gay. My mom isn't very supportive at all.
She told me she still loves me, but she isn't happy that I "think" I'm gay. She hasn't been as nice to me as she used to. I just feel hollow and emotionless now, it's a horrible feeling. I really don't know how to react to this :/

[Berries and Cream]

Hi You said you thought you were gay. But is your mom mad about the fact that you think you're gay or the fact that you are gay? Maybe she wants you to be completely honest with yourself. It takes a lot of courage to be honest with others, and I applaud you for that! But it's not entirely hopeless. Mend your relationship with your mom first. You can talk with your mom and ask her what exactly she's upset about. She still loves you, so maybe she will be all ears for you. Good luck!!

[ThePunkAlien]

It's your Mom's problem not yours. Being gay/bi/etc. isn't something one chooses. We were born this way. Just like the X-Men. I tried running away from who I am most of my life and to tell you the truth? That hurts a lot because it makes you further think there's something to be ashamed of, when there's not. Weeks ago, I decided to slowly come out to my friends and finally accept who I am. Luckily my friend accepts me, that's what a real friend does.

Basically saying don't let your mom's reaction make you go back in. It's easier coming out when you're younger. The problem is with those who can't accept it. Be who you are and never apologize for it, no reason to.

[Ellen]

I'm sorry to hear that it went so poorly for you. I would suggest maybe, as Elizabeth said, figuring out exactly what your mother is upset about. I would also keep in mind that it can sometimes take some time for parents to becoming accepting of this. Just remember that you are a wonderful person regardless of your sexuality

[Celestial.]

Hi there.

I'm sorry to hear that your mother didn't react well. It can be very disheartening to finally find the courage to come out to someone, only to have them react negatively.

It sounds like your mother may think you're just going through a phase. At your age, that wouldn't be unreasonable. If you're sure of your sexual orientation, though, you could try convincing her of that: let her know that this is who you are.

As the others have suggested, I'd recommend talking to your mother about this. You could try educating her on what it means to be gay, that it's not your choice or your fault, and that it's not something wrong or bad.

Finally, it may just take her some time to get used to it. As annoying as it is, most parents tend to make the assumption that their children are straight, and it can be quite a shock to be told otherwise. She may become more comfortable with the idea as time goes by.

Good luck, and I hope things work out.

[Sythan]

Only you know whats good for you. I was lucky enough to have supportive parents. Im sorry you have to go through this, but we are here to help you.

We are sadly born into a society where freedom isnt free, where we are constantly repressed into what they want us to be. But in the end there is only one race, the human race.

[MusicFreakCaroline]

I'm sorry that she isn't more supportive about you coming out.. My mom is pretty supportive but she keeps hoping I'll change my mind. Even that to me is an emotional strain and its sad we live in a world where any thing but the norm is frowned upon. I know dealing with this is hard so please pm me anytime... I up for talking about anything seriously

[ChelseaSmile]

Maybe your mom needs to get used to the idea first for a little bit. Just give her some time. She's your mother. Clearly she's going to love you no matter what because a mothers love is unconditional<3 But like I said, give it some time. It'll be okay.