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LGBT, Sexuality and Gender Identity Whether you're LGBT, questioning, have gender identity issues, or have entirely unrelated feelings, this forum is here to help with your questions.

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Help? - March 13th 2011, 11:39 PM

I've been thinking a lot lately. When I was little, my cousin (also a girl) and I kissed. We were pretty young so it was innocent, but its had me thinking. I'm attracted to guys, but it has also gone the same way for girls. Could I be bi? Or maybe bi-curious? I don't know what to think, or how to find out.
   
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Re: Help? - March 14th 2011, 12:20 AM

Sammi,

It sounds like you're having mixed feelings. Do you feel attracted to both guys and girls? I'd suggest confiding in a parent, if you're comfortable with that. If not, you could ask a friend or family member that you trust.
The biggest factor is time. It may take a little time before you figure out exactly what your feelings are, and that's perfectly okay. If you're already dating, that's the perfect time to experiment. See if deep down you feel that you're happy being with either sex.

It's a confusing time, so feel free to PM me / message me if you need to talk. In the meantime, try telling someone how you're feeling. It always feels great to get the weight off your shoulders.

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Re: Help? - March 14th 2011, 05:55 AM

i think sam has pretty much done a great job in giving you advice =)
and i think that maybe you're a little bi-curous if you're wondering what'd it be like to be with a girl, i think you're bi if you've felt attracted to a girl, and still are attracted to guys
but i wouldn't focus on lables if it's confusing inside your head, i'd just focus on what you feel and go through self-exploration.
i hope i helped!


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Re: Help? - March 17th 2011, 06:47 PM

Like me, you are young. If you have been dating then you will know the attractions you feel. If you have not been in a relationship with both sex's then it's hard to know. I guess you just follow your heart. If you can imagine yourself with a girl and a guy you are probably bisexual but if you are unsure it is more likely bi-curious. Sadly the only way to find out is to be in relationships with both sex's to see how you feel. Good Luck!


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