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getting made fun of a lot in school and it is really upsetting her :( -
April 12th 2011, 12:27 AM
Hi my name is Blue I am 12 years old almost 13 and I think I am bisexual. The reason I say this is because This girl named Aubrey has been my good friend for years. She is 14 and recently told me that she likes me and wanted to date me. I had never thought of dating a girl before so I told her that I would try it but that I wasn't sure it would work out. It has been almost 4 months already and we are still together I can't even think of guys the same way anymore. We are both very happy with our relationship. But we have been getting made fun of A LOT in school and it doesn't bother me much because i don't care what people think Aubrey though is really hurt by it and and has been very sad lately. I am worried about her. so any advice what I could do to make her feel better?
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Re: getting made fun of a lot in school and it is really upsetting her :( -
April 12th 2011, 12:40 AM
Laws in certain States prevent bullying and harrasment based on Sexual Identity. For example, California Law AB 537 prevents people at school from being harrased based on actual or perceived Sexual identity.
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Re: getting made fun of a lot in school and it is really upsetting her :( -
April 12th 2011, 12:49 AM
I live in Ontario and I know for sure that it is legal to be whatever you want and gay marriage is legal. At school if teachers see someone getting bullied they will try to stop it and parents will try to stop it if you tell them but it still doesn't help completely. I am not sure if there is a law against harassment here but if there isn't there should be. and even of there was is it really possible to completely stop everyone from bothering you? I will always stand up for my girl and I wont ever let anyone hurt her. I will do whatever I can to protect her and have people not bother her. I just want her to be happy and lately nothing will cheer her up
 I just don't know how to make her feel better does that make me a bad girlfriend?
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Re: getting made fun of a lot in school and it is really upsetting her :( -
April 12th 2011, 01:09 AM
Yes, the Ontario Human Rights Commission has a Policy called the "Discrimination and Harrasment Based on Sexual Orientation Policy". It prevents students from being bullied based on actual or perceived sexual orientation. Simply tell a teacher or School Administrator what is going on, and by law they need to resolve the problem.
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Re: getting made fun of a lot in school and it is really upsetting her :( -
April 12th 2011, 04:09 AM
I really wish it was as easy as telling a teacher. I have already told me mom and a teacher and the vice principal and they all stop it IF they are around and they give detentions and lectures to the kids but they always do it again the next time they get a chance. Even if they bother her less now or not at all anymore their words have already sunk in and she told me she is disgusted with herself and that they are right about her and she shouldn't be the way she is and now she is starting to say i should break up with her because she knows i am only dating her to be nice and that i don't actually like girls
but i do like her a lot and i don't want her to break up with me.
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Re: getting made fun of a lot in school and it is really upsetting her :( -
April 12th 2011, 05:40 AM
Even if she wanted to change, she can't. It's who we are inside.
She shouldn't be disgusted with herself just because a few biggoted assholes bully her. Explain that you really like her, and you want to be with her. I believe you need to be there for her, it sounds like she is severely depressed and down on herself. Satanism is not a white light religion; it is a religion of the flesh, the mundane, the carnal - all of which are ruled by Satan, the personification of the Left Hand Path.
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Re: getting made fun of a lot in school and it is really upsetting her :( -
April 26th 2011, 03:25 PM
the law cant be followed all the time there are always chances to break it and these kids always take their chance no matter how many different people I tell. They get into trouble get talked to about it and they keep coming back for more. The best I have been able to do for my girlfriend is stand up for her and try to do fun things with her to cheer her up.
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Re: getting made fun of a lot in school and it is really upsetting her :( -
April 26th 2011, 09:05 PM
Hey there Blue <3
First off I wanted to say, I absolutely love your name it is just beautiful. Back on topic now, I think that first of all sit down with her and let her know how much you really do love her that you are not just dating her to be nice, also try explaining her to that labels are not necessary love is love, and she needs to proud of her for being herself. You love her for who she is and she should love herself too. I think that you should continue to go to the administration in school, they will eventually get the point. Good luck if you need anything let me know. <3 Trish |
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