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LGBT, Sexuality and Gender Identity Whether you're LGBT, questioning, have gender identity issues, or have entirely unrelated feelings, this forum is here to help with your questions.

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is it wrong? - April 12th 2011, 03:56 AM

im gay. Is it unnatural that i feel more comfortable in woman's clothing than men's?
   
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Re: is it wrong? - April 12th 2011, 05:51 AM

Not at all. You could be Gender Non-Conforming or "Gender Queer" as it is sometimes called. Meaning you don't adhere to society's definition of Male/Female. You may present as not entirely male.

If you want to remain male, and just wear a dress, Drag Queen may be a good option :P


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Re: is it wrong? - April 12th 2011, 06:00 AM

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Re: is it wrong? - April 12th 2011, 06:33 AM

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Re: is it wrong? - April 12th 2011, 08:17 AM

Andrew,

There's absolutely nothing wrong with that. Wear what you want to wear, and ignore what society thinks. I'm female, but some days I would much rather wear men's clothes, and there are people who are the opposite.

So my advice to you is, do what feels right. If that means going against society's expectations, so what? If it's what you want to do, go for it.

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Re: is it wrong? - April 12th 2011, 09:43 AM

There's nothing wrong with it! It's perfectly normal. Embrace who you are, and don't worry what anyone else says to you! If you're happy in them and feel good in them, then go ahead, and be you! (:


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Re: is it wrong? - April 12th 2011, 09:51 AM

It's absolutly fine. If it's who you are, then there is no reason why you shouldn't be yourself about it. Don't try and change it because that would be changing you. Some people do like to dress in the opposite genders clothes, and that's fine. If you like it, do it. Be who you feel comfortable being.


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Re: is it wrong? - April 12th 2011, 10:06 AM

There is nothing wrong with it at all. Wear what you feel is comfortable and don't feel like you have to do what society tells you to do. As long as you're happy, that's what matters


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Re: is it wrong? - April 12th 2011, 03:07 PM

There is nothing wrong with that at all, wear what you feel comfortable in and do what you want. You should never have to change because other people tell you to!
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Re: is it wrong? - April 12th 2011, 10:04 PM

There's nothing wrong with it at all. You said the key word - comfortable. As long as you are comfortable and happy with yourself, your appearance and your gender, that's all that matters. Natural is being who you are, and ignoring those who tell you otherwise


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Re: is it wrong? - April 12th 2011, 10:22 PM

There is nothing wrong with this at all! Be who you want to be! Wear what you want to wear, overall just make sure that you are happy my friend.
There are plenty of people that prefer the opposite sexs clothing, some because they want to be the opposite sex/gender (ie a transgender/transsexual) as myself.
Then you have crossdress, genderqueers, non conforming gender benders there is absolutly nothing wrong with it just make sure you are happy!


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