question!

[XHaters_Make_me_famousX]

so i have a question
so i consider myself bisexual but lately i have stronger feelings for girls
(especially when i am drunk)
so does that mean im turning into a lesbian?
and i thought you are born gay and you can't "turn" that way?
but i'd like to be gay
idk

[enfantreve]

Life has no blacks-and-whites. Never label yourself. "gay" "bisexual" "straight" are all stereotypes. Like who you like. That's all.

[Reverie.]

Like who you like. Don't worry about limiting yourself with a title, really. If you like girls more, then so be it, but if you like men and women, that's fine too. Don't title it as it will confuse things more.

[Celestial.]

Hey Amanda.

The thing is, sexuality isn't rigid. It's fluid, in fact, meaning it can change. While labels can be a good thing, in that they help you feel more secure and sure, but they can also be restrictive, and if you spend too much time fussing over them, you may miss the point.

Being bisexual doesn't mean equal attraction to both sexes - not always, anyway. Sometimes they might feel more attracted to one or the other, and that's natural. Just because you feel more attracted to girls at the moment doesn't mean you're not still bisexual - and if you still want to identify as that, then go ahead.

You're still a teen, too, meaning that you're still growing and developing, and things like this can change. Now isn't the time to be getting caught up with labels; it's the time to be experimenting, learning about yourself, and getting used to who you are - or who you're becoming. I suggest you just do what you want to do. If that means being with a guy, then do; if that means going with a girl, why not? Just do what feels right, and ignore what other people think.

Good luck.

[Sarahh9]

Dont force yourself into fitting a label just date who you like, and dont call it anything. People's sexualities change all the time, no ones is truly concrete.