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Question Crushing on a friend - April 26th 2011, 05:50 PM

Im crushing on a really good friend of mine, he is not available, and I dont know how im supposed to get over it. Any Advice?
   
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Re: Crushing on a friend - April 26th 2011, 08:36 PM

Hey there >3

I am sorry that you are stuck in the middle of a crush that has no availability, I totally know where you are coming from. I am head over heels for this girl that has a girl and I am likely to have no chance with her, at least not anytime soon. I think the best thing that I have found. Is to just continue to strengthen your friendship with him. That way he is still in your life and you are still in his, that way if he opens up maybe there will be a chance for you. Remember love can be a wonderful thing if it is the right person. I hope this has helped you in some way. If you need anything else, or just wanna chat. Let me know <3
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Re: Crushing on a friend - April 28th 2011, 01:57 PM

Hey
I am in a similar situation, i am bi and i like this girl and this boy
The boy got very interested in me becouse i was bi and he had a gay experience once, i interperted that as only interest in friendship, at the time i didnt like him.
The things now are that the girl i liked and him wich i like too, are now dating, yes...
And i feel so stupid becouse i helped them get toghether (yes alot) and now i feel so jealous that i just get veery depresed, both of them know i like both.
My advice: Carefull with the friend thing, it can be very very bad
   
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Re: Crushing on a friend - April 28th 2011, 04:53 PM

I know how you feel. I've just about always felt like that. The best thing to do is probably to stay friends and still talk to him. Grow your friendship and make it stronger. And like kind of signal that you're interested, but not exactly flirt (if that's possible). There's also just saying that you like him and he might feel the same way, but that's kind of risky.

So I would just wait for the right time.


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