Miss my ex

[Raylolo]

Hi,
So I really miss my ex. We haven't talked in a few months and all for good reasons. We left off on really bad terms. She rubbed her new gf in my face and I got rather mad since we'd just kissed and said I love you a few days before she got a new gf. We almost got back together and then she was w/ that girl. So I flipped out on her and said some really nasty things. While I shouldn't have said them, I meant most of them.

She hurt me a lot. Cheated on me, lied to me, screamed at me, picked fights with me, etc. She was also alcholic, bulimic, and at points anerexic instead of bulimic. Thus, she was not healthy nor was the relationship.

Yet, somehow I miss her and don't know how to get over her. I want to make sure I don't contact her again, because I know it's a really bad idea. Adviced on getting over her and/or making sure I don't contact her again?

Thanks,
Rachael

[xxnofferxx1]

Responding to your forum;
Obviously you care, In all facts she doesn't seem like she does. Like you said she Isn't healthy and neither are you, It kind of seems like she Isn't going to go far in life, You could you don't need anyone holding you back, And you said your relationship wasn't healthy either, My advice is too move on to bigger and better Find someone you like get to know them don't fall for them unless there going to catch you:b I'm sure you can find someone boo (: I'm here if you want to talk.

[TheCrowing]

I'm sorry it went that way.. I had the same experience with my ex 3 years ago, and it's a terrible feeling on both sides of the breakup. I understand that you still love her, but if she's going to treat you this way, and the relationship you'd have is unhealthy, it's better to walk away and move on. I won't say that it's easy, because 3 years ago I was in the same position as you, and I still love her. You should just distance yourself from it, and let things naturally resolve.

Don't let her or your love for her control you. Personally, letting it control me was the worst thing I have ever done. Be strong, and find something or someone that will make you happy without it being unhealthy.

[Sythan]

I am very sorry you went through that. However from the looks of it, the relationship was not healthy for you. It hurts, I know, but it just could not end well if it went on any longer. I hope everything turns out alright.