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Regretting the Label -
April 28th 2011, 05:28 PM
Ok so I came put as Lesbian in October and I am 97% certain that I am a lesbian....But theres this 3% that is wondering weather I am Bi....
I wish I hadn't put a label on myself and come out as if I say oh I want to do things with guys 1. to make sure 2. cause I feel confused about how I feel about this one guy. then people will think that the whole Im gay thing is just me being attiontion seeking... Anyway this guy ( The one I am confused about ) gave me his num one thing led to another.....and now we are going to meet up to well but it cleanly ...have some fun.. This is out of the blue and all, but would have been alot easier if I hadn't labelled myself ...so I guess what I am saying is....Dont put a label on yourself ...Be who u want to be.....But just don't label ...At least not until you 1 billion percent certain and/or older. I'm only saying this as this as the ratio of 97% gay and 3% bi/straight could change....I am a 16 year old hormonal teen after all.... "Casting all your anxiety upon Him, because He cares for you." 1 Peter 5:7
"For God gave us a spirit not of fear but of power and love and self-control." 2 Timothy 1:7 "Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect." Romans 12:2 PM/VM me anytime LIZ  |
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Re: Regretting the Label -
April 28th 2011, 11:10 PM
I 100% agree with this. No matter who knows me as a lesbian, I always correct them and say that although I strictly like women, I am also open minded. =]
Who knows, maybe he could just be that one guy. "Although only breath, words which I command are immortal." Sappho
 "Sometimes I feel nothing at all. Sometimes I feel everything is my fault. Sometimes I feel the hate break my mind. Sometimes I feel they deserve it this time. May the bridges I burn light my way." - I, Alone - Otep  |
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Re: Regretting the Label -
April 29th 2011, 12:04 AM
In the end, all you need to say is "I'm open to new experiences". The people who say something to you about being an attention hog, can (pardon my language) just go suck it! Haha. Aren't I amazingly blunt?
 Anyway, I completely and totally agree with not labeling yourself, especially as a teenager.
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