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Does she like me? - May 13th 2011, 07:50 AM

ok So My best friend and I have known each other for 12 years or so. We grew up together in the same school and church. We both recently revealed to each other that we are bisexual. Well, I was hanging out with her at her house the other day and I think she was hinting that she liked me. She has a girlfriend but they haven't talked in awhile and they have an open relationship. I asked her how things were going with her girl and she told me that she liked someone else, but wouldn't tell me who... And than she kept giving me compliments all night (in our friendship, we hardly ever did that). I think she likes me and I think I like her too. I just don't want to ruin a friendship if something goes wrong. Should I date my best friend? And since I'm new to the LGBT scene, how do you go about dating a girl? Is it the same as dating guys? Sorry if I sound so naive but IDK these things.


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Re: Does she like me? - May 13th 2011, 08:42 PM

It really depends on how you'll feel if something ever goes bad in the relationship. For example, I know that if my gf and I ever break up, we would still be best friends. We have always put being best friends first. Friendship before the relationship. We were friends for 3 years before we went out and we've been together for almost 4 years. But then I know people who have said that they wouldn't be able to do it. Before you do anything, think about how you might feel if something goes wrong? How do you think she'd feel?

Dating a girl is whatever you make it out to be. The best thing to do is to just go and have a good time. Try not to put it in terms of date with a girl/date with a guy. Think of it in terms of who you are on the date with.


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Re: Does she like me? - May 14th 2011, 05:00 AM

I think it all depends on what means more to you. The friendship, or the liking her? I totally think that you could save your friendship in the event that something could potentially bad happen. It seems like she could like you, but you never know unless you ask. Scary, I know. But really, you don't. You can tell her point blank, "Hey, I like you. But I don't want to hurt our friendship." If she likes you back, then you go from there. If she still just likes you as a friend then you can work on moving on, and continue on with th friendship as normal as possible. Don't wait too long to talk to her though because you're going to psych yourself out, then you're going to get scared, etc. I would say just go for it. You've been friends for a really long time, so surely you have some sort of understanding of each other. Take care. <3


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Re: Does she like me? - May 16th 2011, 03:32 PM

Well, thanks for your advice. We got everything out in the open and we are dating (we aren't "official" yet but we are dating). She told me she liked me for a while now even before I told her I was bi. She hinted to me yesterday that she would like us to be official (by that I mean either she asks me out of I ask her out) so I am trying to come up with a cute way to do it.


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