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Question I'm so confused - June 3rd 2011, 05:06 PM

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This is something that has been bugging me for some time now. Since I've been 13 and started puberty, I've only been attracted to boys. But lately I've been wondering what it would be like to be with a girl, but only physically not emotionally. I've seen the girl-on-girl porn videos and it's been... arousing (blushes) but I'm not into those poster 'centrefold' girls, more into someone like I can get along with. Also, my school is Anglican and a lot of people at my school are homophobic. Either that or they are plainly rude towards them.
Does this mean that I'm bisexual?

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Re: I'm so confused - June 3rd 2011, 06:44 PM

Lots of straight people do watch gay/lesbian porn and get aroused by it.
We cannot tell you if your are bi or not as it something that only you can tell.
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Re: I'm so confused - June 3rd 2011, 06:55 PM

Nope. Bi-curious.

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Re: I'm so confused - June 3rd 2011, 07:14 PM

These feelings are very common espcailay for a females who are more open minded. If you have no emotional attachment to females then your still stright. The fact your open minded to enjoy a differnet kind of pleasure doesnt mean you have to commit to it. Some may call this bi-currious but the fact is your emotions are with males so don't let a label confuse you.

Find someone you trust and enjoy your experince but don't let it change who you are cause it doesnt have to.
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Re: I'm so confused - June 3rd 2011, 08:25 PM

You honestly won't know until you experience it. You might find someone who you will find an emotional attachment to, but you'll never know until you try it out. Or maybe you really are just strictly physically attracted. I know many straight girls who are physically attracted to some girls, but aren't into girls at all. On the other hand, my one good friend was never emotionally attracted to girls until she met her now girlfriend.

Try it. You might like it.

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Re: I'm so confused - June 3rd 2011, 11:46 PM

A lot of girls in there teenage years get aroused by girl on girl porn etc. But only you can tell if you are, I know from personal experience that it took me a few years to work out whether I was or not. If anything you would be Bi Curious.

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