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[forrealthistime22]

OK so this is my first time on here and im hoping that somebody will be able to help me.
I started my job in march of 2011. There i met some really cool people but one in particular. She was my trainer for my first couple of weeks at work but after that we kinda found that we had an odd bond. She told me from the begining that she was bisexual, which i was totally ok with. We talked a lot at work and ocassionally texted. She was constantly flirting with me and being a sort of "creeper" but with time i grew to enjoy the attention and reciprocate some of the feelings that she had for me. We hung out like everyday for a week which led to our first kiss. For me it was one of the most confusing and yet perfect moments of my life. I never had really expected that i would be attracted to other girls but at that moment everything seemed right. We officially began dating about a week later.
We have now been together for a little over 2 months and we have a really strong relationship. Working together has caused some problems in the fact that our boss schedules us opposite shifts so finding time to see each other has become a bit more difficult. No matter what though we always find time for each other and we have a bond that i have never experienced before. I honestly and truley love her and she the same to me.
My issue is how to speak with my mom about our relationship. I know that she will not want me to see my girlfriend but trying to hind that we are "more than friends" is hard. My girlfriend is 20 at this time and i fear that my mom will not be ok with this, which i understand, but she doesnt understand how close we are and that this isnt just a little crush or my girlfriend trying to take advantage. We really do love each other.
I would apreciate any sort of advice concerning my relationship and how to tell my mother the whole truth of our relationship
-thanks

[Caiti2]

wow u seem to be in a hard position, i think you really need to tell your mum maybe wright her a letter (even though it seems really stupid) because u can explain everything that u just explained there without the fear that it would come out wrong if u make it clear how strongly u feel about her maybe your mum will feel more comfotable with it and also if your mum totally flips out you could say can you please just give this a chance if you dont like it you can say something all im askin is for you to get to know her i think what you need to do is be complety open and honest with her and also be really mature so that she can she that your ready for a relationship and how much it means to you
gud luck
hope this helped
pm me anytime

[Rooni3]

Wow first of all, I'm happy for you and your wonderful relstionship! (:
And second, I'm afraid that your mom would like call the police or something because of the age difference. Truth is, sometimes parents just cannot understand. Maybe you can ease into telling her by just saying that you are gay or bi if she's not aware already?

[MusicFreakCaroline]

I think first you should tell your mom that you like girls first and see how that goes before you tell her about your girlfriend