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September 21st 2011, 08:33 PM
Okay, so I've liked this girl on and off for a while now, and we're pretty good friends. She's bi, and I don't know if I should tell her or not.
I don't want to because it might make things awkward with us, because I doubt she feels the same way about me, and I don't want to say anything because I'm not outtttt. Just closer friends know about me. I do want to, because I think it'd be fun and we could become closer and we could try to be subtle? Idk. Any suggestions? Thanks. |
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Re: What to do, what to do. -
September 21st 2011, 08:50 PM
If you feel comfortable with telling one more person and maybe getting some fun and/or a relationship out of it, I say go for it. It could turn out well and if not, then at least you can say you tried.
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September 22nd 2011, 06:42 AM
Maybe you can come out to her first and see how she reacts to that versus just telling her you like her because if she doesn't know you like other girls then it would be emotionally harder for her to like you. Its something you two have in common and maybe can even relate to as well (:
And I regret not coming out sooner because nobody knew I was gay so it left me with little options lol. This could really turn out in your favor! Best of luck! "You know I'm such a fool for you"
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September 24th 2011, 04:06 AM
She knew, and my friend asked her what she thought about the idea of us and I guess I'm "not her type". So, guess it doesn't matter now. :/ But thanks guys.
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Re: What to do, what to do. -
September 24th 2011, 11:50 AM
Hey there,
I'm sorry that it didn't work out for you. In your original post, you mentioned wanting to become closer to your friend. I think that even if you two aren't with each other, there is a good chance you could still bond over this. Being LGBT isn't always easy, and it's nice to be able to talk to other people going through the same things that you are. If you feel comfortable doing so, maybe you could talk about some of the issues that surround being bi in today's society. She might be able to offer some support or advice in dealing with things. Although you did not get a relationship out of this, you should be very proud of yourself for being honest about your sexuality. I know that is a hard thing to do, so way to go!Hang in there! I hope it gets better for you soon! 
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