Coming out to myself...

[katie4evrr1]

Idk this is the first time i have really addressed the topic.. but i think i might be bi, i mean have been thinking about it for years wondering if it was true but i figured i was too into guys and i have always dated guys and that ment i had to stay straight.

Also im not really scared what my friends will think but i more of worry aboiut my family. They aren't the nicest and im scared they will reject me if i am.

Jeez... is there any true way for me to tell or do i have to figure it out myself through experimentation (cuz i dont know if im ready for that) I am so freakin confused.

[Bubbles37]

First of all, you don't have to tell anyone if you aren't comfortable with it. Also, I would advise against telling anyone unless you're sure. I don't think it's necessary to experiment in order to figure out your sexuality. I know I'm bi and I haven't experimented at all. That being said, sexuality is really confusing with a lot of grey areas. It is normal to be confused. Give it time, and (even though it sounds cliche), you don't have to put a label on yourself.

[BruceLeeDemarcus]

Its hard to tell if you are or aren't. i guess it just depends on the way that you feel for people. If you come out to your family about it, they shouldn't reject you. Thats becuase you are just being you and they should respect that!

[Dr.Bobby]

Katie, is anything easy at 14?

Maybe you should just tolerate the ambiguity for a while, see what happens. Time, as they say, tells all. Don't rush it, and don't jump to any conclusions just yet, see what happens. It's a journey, it's just started. Enjoy the scenery without necessarily looking to define it.

You are what you are, regardless of what that ultimately might be. It sometimes takes a bit of time to clarify that, but everyone, eventually figures it out just by living life and seeing what happens and how it feels.