doesnt really kno Wat i am???

[Lovehatelife23]

I am really Confused with this Situation...I wanted to have a Boyfriend in my Life but sence ive changed my Life Style boys look at me like im a Boy but im a Girl...Im Confused??? I think i rather have a Girl then a Guy bc Girls cant get you Pregnant but boys can....The way i am n with this girl tat i did go out with before n we were together n ended Wrong bc she came at me n said shes datin a Boy Now soo i had to Stop...All im saying is im Confused???


Idk wich way to go...girl or Boy

but then i think when i get up the money one day i can Transgender myself from girl to boy...Sence i already look like a Boy...


Wat do i do???

[Bloody_Obsession]

Honey, there is nothing that says you have to have your mind made up about the rest of your life at this very moment in time. You don't have to pick a team to be on either. You can date both men and women. Yes, men can get you pregnant but if you're just wanting a relationship, you don't have to jump immediately to sex. However, if sex is something you're looking at, there are always ways to prevent pregnacies such as codoms and whatnot. I'm a lesbian myself. Have been for as long as I can remember and I remember the confusion and coming out process like it was yesterday. Women can offer you a few things that men have problems with, such as: an understanding as to why you're pms'ing, a gentle touch, compassion, ect. Like I said, its not something you're going to wrap your head around in one time. It's something that takes time as you question yourself, "Is this right for me?" The truth is, you may never know until you find that one person who steals your breath and heart away before you have a chance to say no. The same applies to an expensive, transgender operation. Just because you look a certain way, doesn't mean you have to conform to what society believes. Be free to be your own person, that's one of the wonderful things about being free. If you need somebody to talk to, I don't have a chance to access this much but if you message me, I will definitely get back to it as soon as I can. Just be patient and stay safe.

<3 Sammie Jo

[Jaguar]

I don't think anybody could put it better than Sammie Jo did. I wish I had written it myself.

[Soliloquy]

Hey Leslie,

First of all, you don't have to give up on boys just because you might appear a little "more masculine" now. What do you mean that guys look at you more like a boy? Do you mean physically? Emotionally? Remember that relationships come in all different forms. Some guys date more masculine girls, some girls date more feminine guys, etc. You don't have to rule out anybody on the grounds that you or they look a certain way.

Yes, it's true that girls can't get you pregnant. However, I'd advise against getting with a girl solely for this reason. Keep in mind that were you to be intimate with a boy, there are precautions you could take to avoid getting pregnant. Boys and girls, as Sammie Jo said, will probably offer you different things in a relationship. There are pros and cons to both. Do you find that you have a physical and/or emotional attraction to girls? Boys? When it comes to transitioning from a girl to a boy, do you feel like a boy? Or is it that you think you "might as well" since you already "look like one?"

Like I said, people come in all different forms. You can be a girl, be a little more masculine, and date boys. You can be a girl and date girls. Or you could be a guy and date guys or girls. The combinations are endless! What it comes down to is what feels right to you. This may take some time, but that's okay! Take as long as you need. There's no rush!

Take care!!