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Not confused, just angry - November 23rd 2011, 07:09 PM

I'm in love with my best friend, put bluntly, I have been for about 7 months, recently she's been having a bad time, her grandfather died, then just as I was starting to think she was cheering up her ex boyfriend came back into the picture and was being all romantic to her, which I was sort of glad of as it made her happy then, I'm not sure exactly what happened, I wasn't told as she said I would have over reacted, but he metaphorically ripped her to shreds again, but because I'm in love with her it makes me so worried about her and angry at her ex and all these negative emotions. I've reached the point where I just don't want these feelings anymore, I want rid of them. She doesn't know I love her. How do I get rid of these feelings?
   
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Re: Not confused, just angry - November 25th 2011, 01:57 AM

Tell her. Tell her that's why you care if she's happy or not.


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Re: Not confused, just angry - November 26th 2011, 04:11 AM

Talk to her about the feelings but don't get your hopes up about the outcome of it. Tell her you aren't expecting anything from it, but you just need to get it off your chest. Honesty is the most important thing when trying to overcome a crush. Good Luck. xx


   
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Re: Not confused, just angry - November 26th 2011, 08:51 AM

It might be best to just tell. It might change things, and if she's your friend she should at least give you a chance.


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