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lesbian dreams - November 26th 2011, 04:00 AM

I keep having dreams of me making out with a friend of mine... she's bi, and she always says she loves me. Now im super confused! Im straight, Ive always been attracted to guys, but now idk?


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Re: lesbian dreams - November 26th 2011, 04:07 AM

It's a dream, not reality, unless you make it one. Meaning, if you aren't attracted to females in reality, then you are most likely straight. Dreams are images of things on our mind constantly. If you are thinking about your friend being bi and liking you, that could be why you are having these dreams.
   
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Re: lesbian dreams - November 27th 2011, 05:47 AM

That makes so much sense, thanks for answering!


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Re: lesbian dreams - November 27th 2011, 07:07 AM

Hey Sarah.

As Briana said, dreams are dreams. Sometimes they can be more, and sometimes they're just ways for your subconscious to play around with ideas you don't let yourself think about in waking hours. It could be that because your friend is open about her feelings like that, you've become curious, and so when you sleep your mind toys with the idea. Having dreams about the same sex doesn't mean you're gay. I've had dreams like that about the opposite sex, but that doesn't make me straight.

It comes down to what you feel, when you're awake. Do you want to be with a girl? Are you attracted to them? Can you see yourself with one? If not, you're probably straight, and the dream is just a dream. If you can, however, you could be bisexual, bi-curious, or any other number of things. Just take some time, explore your options, and see what feels right. And remember, no matter what you decide, that's perfectly okay.

Take care, and good luck.


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