does one gay kiss make someone bisexual?

[justme1119]

well there's guy he struck me as attractive. I am not American and like I used to be like really attracted to african american girls and guys. It's just the way I am I guess maybe it's that at first they were exotic or rarer to me maybe it's that my first gf was but idk. Anyway I've had this huge crush on a guy at school. All the ladies like him. Anyway my feelings remained a thing to myself but he I guess after all these years erecognized me. Well we hung out got closer and then he started making jokes on our relationship being gay when it was just platonic friends. Well this weekend he and I were hanging out. Also we had been smoking joints. He's always been interested in trying it he knows what I do. I've had a drug issue 5 years. We somehow got in his room alone forgot the reason. He kissed me on the lips said my lips tasted as good as they looked. And then well we made out for like 3 minutes. He wouldn't have any further than that. He's well today said he's straight and excited about his crush who he's taking out to the christmas party which I'm happy for him we're still friends. I'm just curious like to me because we made out I thought it made him bisexual. Well does it? Is he just denial? We're both 14. I like him as a person either way just curious?

[Jaguar]

A kiss doesn't make you bisexual. Neither does a sexual experience. It happens more than most people think and in this case doesn't mean any more than you two got high and kissed.

[FillingWithHope]

I agree, these experience happen to almost everybody at some point or another in their life. Don't forget though you two were high so he may have just took an experience because he may have been curious.

[Troubled_Heart]

Being bisexual depends on how you feel inside. If you feel attracted to both sexes then chances are you are bisexual, but if you are attracted to one sex chances are you are hetrasexual, although this can change at anytime.
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[leavemealone]

If you two kissed because you were just high, then no, but if you WANTED to kiss him and you still do, than you may be. But it all depends on how it makes you feel.

[Iris. ♥]

One kiss doesn't make you bisexual. It doesn't depend on physical acts, it depends on what you feel. If I understood your post right, you're asking about his sexuality. Only he can truly tell that. While it's possible that he's in denial, he might truly be straight. It just depends on who he is attracted to. Don't push him about it. It's something he has to figure out on his own.

[Dream]

No amount of kissing makes a person anything.

[justme1119]

I realize I am I think I go back in forth. I like girls mostly but I'll go with anyone who will date me really. Mostly my attraction to guys iis physical. It's not serious so it doesn't last unless it's like the last. I was more asking about my friend. I was just curious. I thank you guys for the advice .

[CutewitouttheE14]

Originally Posted by Jaguar

A kiss doesn't make you bisexual. Neither does a sexual experience. It happens more than most people think and in this case doesn't mean any more than you two got high and kissed.

i agreee 100% with them ^^

[Sythan]

No, it doesn't. You could have sex with the person and it won't make you bisexual.

[katpanda]

A kiss does not define you as bisexual or gay. Sexual attraction doesn't really define that either, but then again this depends on the degree on the sexual attraction.
If you see yourself being in a relationship with another of the same sex for a prolonged period of time that is when you should consider yourself being bisexual.

I myself am pansexual and my feelings towards this conclusion first came from sexual feelings toward a bisexual girl I knew. For the next year I did many things with a girl I have known for years, I then started getting feelings for her. I no longer wanted to be sexual with her, I just wanted to hold her and have her as mine, etc. That is when I realised that I was bisexual.
But after learning about the term pansexual I realised that I had don't take gender into consideration. I fall for the person, not their gender.

[shortiie.so.nice]

One kiss does not determine if u are bi-sexual. To know if ur bi-sexual you will have feeling for both genders. You normally know ur sexual orientation either at a young age or once you become interested in ur sexual orientation

[JKmadu619]

You might be, your might not be. First of all, I recomend not getting high anymore, because it obviously impares you judgement.

Secondly, you are having hormone problems, and it's been proven that in teen years everyone is attracted to their own gender at least somewhat, to varying degrees. This may not be a "phase" and could very easily be a part of who YOU are.

Third: No matter what conclusion you come to, there is nothing wrong with being gay, bisexual, or straight. Everyone deserves to feel happy, regardless of their race, age, sexual orientation, gender, or disabilities.

- Justin

[Le bonheur*]

One kiss doesn't make you bisexual. It's all honestly how you feel towards the person and how attractive he is to you. If you want to do it again and you feel attracted towards him, then you may be bisexual. But really; who needs labels?

[MacGuffin]

There were drugs involved. Things that happen when drugs are in use really don't have much credit in them, especially since once he was sober he went back to being his normal, straight self. I don't think that one time experience makes him bisexual.

[ChrisB]

Hi there!
Your sexual identity could and can take years upon years to figure out. Just because you kiss someone or even because you have sex with someone of the same sex does not mean your gay just because your attracted to both (right at this second if you will) does not mean your bisexual either. Sexuality is very fluid and there are pleanty of variations of it, more than most people probably are aware of. You are still very young and are expieremnting with your sexuality as are many teenagers around your age and there is nothing wrong with that, infact it is normal. you may be gay, you may be bisexual or you may be striaght or something inbetween all of that. But you don't need to decide now or figure it out if you will. you have pleanty of time, live your life, have fun expierement as you wish. Its your life and do as you please.!!

[Celestial.]

Since the original question has been answered, I'm going to close this thread. OP, if you disagree, feel free to PM me and ask to have it reopened, or just start another thread.