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Question Ummm... - December 23rd 2011, 05:08 AM

Okay, I'm gonna confuse you a bit then ask you a stupid question. Ohhhhhhhhhhkayyyyy.

I'm bi, I suppose. I'd rather be in a relationship with a guy. And, I don't find them sexually attractive. But, I'm more sexually attracted to girls. And, I prefer not to be in a relationship with a girl. I thought if you're bi.. you're attracted to both genders in both ways?

So... what the hell am I? lmao

(Oh, and let me include this, I have a boyfriend. And, I'm sexually attracted to him. But, if I wasn't with him... I wouldn't be sexually attracted to him. Confused yet? lol)


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Re: Ummm... - December 23rd 2011, 05:22 AM

Ah, there is already a term for the experience you just described in the last sentence! It is called "demisexual".

Labels mean whatever you want them to mean, really. It's not about fitting some set of guidelines, it is meant as a tool to help us feel more comfortable and in touch with our diverse bodies and experiences. I find that a lot of people are choosing to identify as "queer" rather than gay or bi, because it feels freer and less bound by strict definitions. Only you can decide for yourself, though.

Also there is a difference between sexual attraction/orientation and romantic attraction/orientation. They can exist independently of one another!


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Re: Ummm... - December 23rd 2011, 03:52 PM

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Okay, I'm gonna confuse you a bit then ask you a stupid question. Ohhhhhhhhhhkayyyyy.

I'm bi, I suppose. I'd rather be in a relationship with a guy. And, I don't find them sexually attractive. But, I'm more sexually attracted to girls. And, I prefer not to be in a relationship with a girl. I thought if you're bi.. you're attracted to both genders in both ways?

So... what the hell am I? lmao

(Oh, and let me include this, I have a boyfriend. And, I'm sexually attracted to him. But, if I wasn't with him... I wouldn't be sexually attracted to him. Confused yet? lol)
You're bisexual, but leaning on one side for one attraction, the other for the other. I'm sorta similar, except i feel no true sexual attraction to either sex, but more of a bonding emotional attraction to both. It's not confusing, it's just who you are


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