Have Some Questions

[Alergnon]

I have a few questions but before I wanted to explain why I'm asking first.

I want to experiment with the same sex, I want to have sex with the same sex. I'm not Bisexual, I'm more than straight, I just want to try it.

1) How did you meet your same sex partner?

2) Did you just experiment or did it last a while?

3) What does it like feel like to be with the same sex? (not to have sex)

Thank You...

[Invert]

If you want to experiment for the sake of 'knowing what it is like', with no chance of more, you need to make it clear to whoever you are sleeping with, so they can make sure they are ok with it. This lowers the chances of someone getting hurt, or problems occuring (e.g. they are not so likely to be offended if you dont want to go on a date. As they know what they are doing, before they do it). Of course its always possible, even if you find a straight person to sleep with, warning or not, someone could struggle with it. Alas the problems of one night stands.

I meet my first same sex partner at school, we were best friends. She came on to me, I loved her, blah blah blah. Second same sex partner, I meet at a queer youth meet thing. Last same sex partner, meet through a friend, started talking on FB and msn. My friends have meet people on dating sites, in clubs, and bars, etc. So, like straight people, but harder as there are less people looking for gay sex, or same sex relationships.

2) I experimented, with my first gf. But the way I think you meant experimented, no. I was doing stuff with her, because I wanted her. Didn't know what my sexuality was, sometimes still don't know 6 year on, but I do know when I want someone, and I wanted her.

3) I don't think one can actually have an answer to this. As you might have experienced with boys, every relationship feels different. In a healthy relationship, you should probably at least feel comfortable, warm, whatever, and the rest is going to be unique to that person. I've never dated someone of the opposite sex as me, but I get the impression, a relationship is a relationship.

[Jaguar]

Well, believe it or not, you're not unusual. Polls indicate that among males who identify themselves as straight almost half report having done something sexual with another male at some time.

[ReluctantPegasister]

I am bisexual.

1. I have never dated a girl, mostly for never meeting a girl my age who was interested in dating me.
2. I have experimented with a girl, but then, I haven't dated one.
3. It's different then being with a guy. It's less intimidating and less confusing (imo) then being with a guy.