Scream? Eh. Maybe. -_-

[Eldora]

Oh.

Well, yay.


I have these two friends who are bi. One I met only at the end of last year (C), one I've known since the beginning of last year (S). I had a bit of a crush on the one that I met at the end of last year. At the beginning of this year, the three of us hung out a lot and we were pretty close in general. That was, until C moved away.


Last week, S told me that C liked me. I'd suspected it, but I hadn't said anything about it. But anyway, I told S the truth: I didn't know how to react because I'm not over my ex -- and I didn't tell her, but I'm also interested in a guy in one of my new classes. She told me that I needed to talk to C, and I told her that if C lived here, then I might. Not for certain, but I might. I didn't think there was any possibility C would be moving back.


To sum up my problem: C's possibly moving back now.

Which means that when she gets back, depending on what S told her, C could be under the impression that I like her when I don't. I never, ever intended for this to happen, yet it has. Help?

[esfdhtfy]

I think that you need to talk to C yourself. I get that S is a mutual friend and is trying to play match-maker but it really isn't any of her business. This is between you and C. I don't think you need to explain yourself to S, personally, but I would indeed try and speak to C before she (potentially) moves back.

Try to clear things up with C. If I understood your post correctly, C did not directly tell you that she had feelings for you. You're merely basing your opinion off of hearsay from S. Talk to C and find out what's going on. If she does have some kinds of intimate feelings for you, explain what you just explained to us - about you not being over your ex- and developing an interest in that guy. Be open and honest from the get-go because, if you're not, things will only get worse. Your hole will be dug deeper and deeper until you find yourself in a very tough situation, jeopardizing one or both friendships.

Communicate.

[Chris.]

I would talk to C. Stop the middle man thing because that will only lead to confusion. Talk to C and tell C that you aren't sure if you have feelings for him/her. You need to communicate, other wise things will get alot worse! So your best bet is to talk to C and let C know how you feel and whats going on. Its better to let C know now than when C moves back.



Best wishes,
Chris