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I think I'm becoming bisexual? - January 31st 2012, 06:17 AM

Okay. First of all. I'm not against bisexuals at all.
Okay, well, here it goes.
When I'm online, I just get horny, idk why, I just do.
So I look up like "tits" or something in Google Images.
I think girls are hot. I'm a girl.
But then, I don't think of dating a girl or anything, I just think they're hotter than guys sometimes.
Please help, I'm so confused.


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Re: I think I'm becoming bisexual? - January 31st 2012, 06:35 AM

Maybe just a phase. I'm like that too I don't look at stuff like that on the Internet but with my friends there can be some ..sparky moments with myself haha. If u really feel its more than looking at interesting stuff online then I would explore it...carefully some people just don't understand and can cause problems if they find out.
   
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Re: I think I'm becoming bisexual? - January 31st 2012, 07:30 AM

I'm kind of in the same boat as you are, but with guys. Anyhow, I like to use a "I want this/like this/find this attractive" philosophy. It's helped me a lot to accept the fact that I'm curious about doing certain sexual acts with guys. I've tried to put a label on myself (bi-curious), but it's caused me to have conflicting feelings internally.

There's no wrong answer when it comes down to how you want to identify your sexuality.


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Re: I think I'm becoming bisexual? - January 31st 2012, 04:27 PM

The above posters could be right in that it could just be a phase, but it might also not be. You may be bisexual, or you could be like my friend (I use "friend" VERY loosely here) and be "homoromantic" in that you find the same gender attractive, and don't mind doing sexual things with them, but have no desire to date them.


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Re: I think I'm becoming bisexual? - January 31st 2012, 07:42 PM

Hey there,

Growing up you're often subject to confusion over your own sexuality. That is part of being a teenager and finding out about who you are. That means that it's totally normal for you to be feeling these things. When you're this age, it's normal for you to want to experiment with what you're attracted to, whether it be sexually or romantically. That being said, it's very likely that what you've described could in face be a phase. However, on the other hand, it's just as likely that you are indeed bisexual. Unfortunately I can't tell you if you are or not; that's for you to figure out, but bare in mind that what you're going through is perfectly normal.

Have you looked at TH's Queer Dictionary? If you haven't, I feel it may be worth a read. All it is is basically a list of words relating to sexuality or gender identity which may help you put a label on what you are. That being said, labels aren't necessarily needed and I don't really encourage you to rush to titles when you can just accept that you are attracted to who you are attracted to. But, here's the link : http://www.teenhelp.org/forums/f8-lg...er-dictionary/ Take a look and see what you think.

I hope this has helped a bit. Good luck in everything,
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