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Question Confused. - February 1st 2012, 06:40 PM

I just need some advice on how to handle being biromantic/bisexual/whatever-the-hell-I-am.
I don't like sex...with guys. But I do like the emotional connection with them.
I've never had sex with a girl, or an emotional connection, but that's because I'm too afraid to let anyone know
about my sexuality. (I would SO prefer to be with a girl. I know I'm more attracted to them than I am to guys.)
I just need some kind of advice on how to find a girl that I can trust, and really love...
and how to know if it's real or not.

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Re: Confused. - February 3rd 2012, 08:09 PM

There isn't really any ways, because you can't read a persons mind (if you could, awesome-sauce for you.)

I've never had anything with a girl either, nor a guy... ^^'

But I can tell you, you'll know to take the chance when you see her.


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Re: Confused. - February 3rd 2012, 10:41 PM

I know how you feel. I'm pretty sure I'm also bi, except I've never dated, kissed, or had sex before. Anyways, until you find someone, I have one word for you: yuri. I've read two awesome yuri mangas, Kuchibiru Tameiki Sakurairo and Girl Friends. Nothing too bad in them Trust me, they're awesome and they help fill the void in your heart.
   
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Re: Confused. - February 4th 2012, 12:52 AM

Yuri is actually what first made me wonder about my sexuality. I prefer girl and girl over guy and girl, and I LOVE their relationships more than ones with opposite gender.
I do, however, also have a bf that I love and loves me...
I wonder if he would mind if I explored though? Or maybe keep it to myself. Idk. Lol
   
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Re: Confused. - February 4th 2012, 01:08 AM

It really depends on how you perceive it.
With finding someone.. It doesn't always work out when you go looking for someone. If it happens, then it happens. But seeing that you have a boyfriend, here's a question:

Is it bugging you so much that you're actually thinking about wanting to be with someone else?

Telling him is really up to you and how you think he may feel. He may be fine with it, or he may not. It's really your decision in the end.


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