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February 5th 2012, 01:50 AM
Im not sure if this goes here but anyways,
I have been dating this guy for awhile, and just recently he told me he needs a break and needs time to think about if hes really gay, or its just a phase or whatever. In my opinion, he is not just ready to deal with it all. Hes not open at school, to his parents, or ready to do anything in public. Anyways he told me that he wants me to wait for him to figure it all out. I don't know if its good for me to wait for something that might not even happen :/ I really feel like I'm not the same person since he told me this, and I can tell he's feeling the same thing. Everyone is starting to tell me that I am not the same old person I used to be. I'm just not sure how I even feel. I guess its a mixture of sadness, anger, and all that, but at the same time, I like him so much that I just want him to be happy :/ I want to help him through it, but he just keeps telling me he wants to just not deal with it for now. Any advice? :/ |
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February 5th 2012, 02:43 AM
Okay, first off, hey Jess.
And maybe, just think that he could possibly still be confused. Either that, or like you said, maybe he just isnt ready to come out? I really hope this helped. PM me anytime. Rien ne Va arreter ma quete pour te trouver♥
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February 5th 2012, 03:43 AM
Hey Jess,
it sounds like you really like him. My intake? Wait a little while. If it doesn't seem like he doesn't think he's really able to commit to you, than go on with your life. Your 18, you have a whole life ahead of you. <3 I hope everything works out. -G In a world filled with diversity, I am just another oddity.
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February 5th 2012, 06:16 PM
Does he dislike himself for being attracted to guys? If yes, then the issue is probably just that he is afraid and doesn't know what to do about it.
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