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everyone induding my friends tells me they think my boyfriend is gay -
February 8th 2012, 02:34 PM
I know my boyfriend is not gay, just feminine, but im sick of all the comments. I feel like it is changing my feelings for him and now i don't know what to do. They say I can do better. What should I do?
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Re: everyone induding my friends tells me they think my boyfriend is gay -
February 8th 2012, 04:42 PM
Tell them it's none of their buissness. Being in touch with your feminine side does not make a guy gay, Just like a masculine female doesn't mean they're a lesbian. What actually matters is what you and he feel about each other, not others inputs.
If you really feel like what they're saying is changing the way you like your boyfriend, then you can walk away or change the subject. In a world filled with diversity, I am just another oddity.
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Re: everyone induding my friends tells me they think my boyfriend is gay -
February 9th 2012, 04:45 AM
You shouldn't let their comments on him affect you. If they do affect you, then you might have had these thoughts about him yourself and they're just bringing them light or making you more aware. Either way, if you really like him and believe that he is not gay, their remarks won't make any difference to you.
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Re: everyone induding my friends tells me they think my boyfriend is gay -
February 11th 2012, 01:30 AM
Maybe he is. But he hasn't come out of the closet and until he reveals himself no one has any reason to assume he is anything other than straight. Tell them it is not their life, their buisness or their relationship and if he is gay or not shouldn't be important to them.
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Re: everyone induding my friends tells me they think my boyfriend is gay -
February 11th 2012, 06:48 AM
If you love him, you should stay with him.. he's not gay. Most things friends say are jokes or exaggeration anyways.
It's what I would do. Well, to my girlfriend if I have one. |
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Re: everyone induding my friends tells me they think my boyfriend is gay -
February 11th 2012, 04:43 PM
Don't let other people influence how you feel towards him. If you really love & care for him, then be with him. If you let everyone else get into your head, you may end up losing a great guy.
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Re: everyone induding my friends tells me they think my boyfriend is gay -
February 12th 2012, 05:19 PM
Well I say ignore them. Who cares what other people think. What matters is what you think. You shouldn't let other people control you. Be who you want to be. If it really bothers you, then I think you should talk to them. Or show them how it feels. There is nothing wrong with being gay. Maybe they should realize that. Also they should learn not to judge people like that. It just shows that they just don't know your boyfriend. Does your boyfriend have a problem with it?
 I got off track I've made mistakes Back slid my way to that place where souls get lost lines get crossed and the pain won't go away. R.I.P. Tatyana Sawka June 20, 1998- April 9, 2012 |
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Re: everyone induding my friends tells me they think my boyfriend is gay -
February 12th 2012, 10:55 PM
What would be really nice if you would stick up for him. Maybe that would change things. If you really like him. Tell him how you feel. He should listen to you, not others.
I got off track I've made mistakes Back slid my way to that place where souls get lost lines get crossed and the pain won't go away. R.I.P. Tatyana Sawka June 20, 1998- April 9, 2012 |
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