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Crushes. - February 8th 2012, 08:26 PM

Okay, I have this gigantic crush on my friend.
I don't know how to tell her. I've tired, but it's really hard.
I can't tell her right now because in a while I'll be visiting her and staying in close proximity, and I'm afraid if I come out to her she'll push me away. I don't want that, because I really miss her (she moved </3)

I also need help with this because I get really, really, jealous about how other people get to see her everyday when I can't, and how other people can talk to her when I can't.

One reason I haven't told her I like her, other than the visit is, my friend also likes her, she's said it to my crush, and I can't just come out afterwards. I can't because it would be considered copying, I've been called a copy, and it's hurt. I really like my friend, and besides, I've kind of sorta made a pact with the other friend not to make a big move onto my crush (what? Chicks before... wait, that doesn't apply here...)

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Re: Crushes. - February 9th 2012, 04:42 AM

I think you need to just figure out whether you believe that telling her is worth the risk or not. I think it's a decision only you can make. As for what other people say, trust me, in the future it won't matter. You're happiness is what matters most and what will be most important to you in the end. Hope this helps.
   
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Re: Crushes. - February 10th 2012, 05:38 AM

Thanks. I think I'll think about it more


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Re: Crushes. - February 12th 2012, 08:21 PM

i managed to tell my friend that i liked her. I was in kind of a similar situation where one of my other friends likes her as well. i found out that she likes me too though (i never ever expected that) but im glad i told her... even if it did take me forever and a week to tell her




   
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Re: Crushes. - February 13th 2012, 07:16 AM

I'm in kind of the same situation, and I agree with what the others have said. If you ever want to PM and talk about it, I'm just a few clicks away.


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Re: Crushes. - February 13th 2012, 09:09 AM

Eventually, it's your decision, but I think you should her. There's no use in regretting about it later. You have a chance so go for it.
(Sorry,this is just my opinion,cuz, well, I'm not a person who can hide her feelings and all! )
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Re: Crushes. - February 13th 2012, 01:56 PM

Thanks everybody... I think I might, but the only times I think I can tell her, it's like... Going to ruin her day.... Valentines is her birthday, and when. I come in to visit it's her birthday party..... I don't want to like, dump the fact that I like her when it's suppose to be a friend thing...


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