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LGBTQ+, Sexuality and Gender Identity This forum is for you to explore your sexuality and identity, whatever that may be.
What is wrong with me. -
December 11th 2019, 11:55 PM
So most of the time I say I'm bisexual but I don't think I am at all. Guys approach me on dating apps and real life and they liked me right? There's even this sweet non-binary person whose born a male and I dont want to judge but the more I think about them, the less I want to not like them sexually and romantically. No matter what I'm just not don't get turned on by them. I try and try to express something but it feels too forced. The more I think about it, it has my stomach turned up. I just dont know if it's from the past abuse I've had with men or I'm not actually bisexual but lesbian.
"I'm not a piece of cake for you to just discard
While you walk away with the frosting of my heart
So I'm taking back what's mine, you'll miss
The slice of heaven that I gave to you last night." - "Cake" by Melanie Martinez
Re: What is wrong with me. -
December 12th 2019, 04:08 AM
First of all, it's okay not to have a label. Sexuality is a complicated, life-long journey. There's always room for discovery. It can be very fluid and that's okay. It's normal not to "know what you are."
It's possible your bad experiences with men could be affecting your sexuality, but I don't think you should focus on that. I think it may be good for you if you let go of labels and instead just acknowledge and accept that right now you're more into AFABs. There's nothing wrong with that. It doesn't have to mean you're not bisexual or a lesbian. You like what you like. If you want to put yourself out there with woman, go for it!
I have a similar experience to you with my sexuality so if you ever want to talk feel free to PM me okay? Take care!