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Is this a bad idea? - April 24th 2012, 10:55 PM

So my friend is offering me a few dollars to go ask a girl out in a funny way (the details aren't necessary) and I wanna do it.
Is that ok though? I don't have a gf. I would be willing to go out with this girl if she says yes (although I doubt she will) so I can't see any huge issues but would YOU be ok if that happened?


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Re: Is this a bad idea? - April 24th 2012, 11:24 PM

I would be pretty hurt if I found out a guy only asked me out to win a couple bucks from one of his friends.



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Re: Is this a bad idea? - April 25th 2012, 12:20 AM

No i would be very upset and would think you were a jerk
   
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Re: Is this a bad idea? - April 25th 2012, 01:31 AM

Just don't do it man


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Re: Is this a bad idea? - April 25th 2012, 01:31 AM

Well then imglad I posted here cause I would've done it :P


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Re: Is this a bad idea? - April 26th 2012, 12:49 AM

Do you actually WANT to go out with this girl? I know you said you were willing but willing isn't good enough.

If you so want to go out with her then go ahead, as long as funny doesn't mean embarrassing.
I mean, a girl AND some money, what more could you want?
   
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Re: Is this a bad idea? - April 26th 2012, 01:20 AM

I actually think that asking out a girl for money is kind of well, horrible. You ask out people you like, not because your getting money for it. This could ruin the girl's self-esteem. It's not fun being the girl that only gets asked out because of dares or the guys getting paid.


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Re: Is this a bad idea? - April 26th 2012, 01:45 AM

You said you want to go put with her... I say you do it you win in both situations. If she says yes you win a date with her and money to pay, if she says no you get money. I say go for it.


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Re: Is this a bad idea? - April 26th 2012, 03:02 AM

As they said, I think willing is not quite enough. If you actually LIKE her and WANT to go out with her, as opposed to just being willing, then go for it.

Otherwise, it's not nice. I was asked out by guys at school who were doing it for a dare or whatnot, none of whom actually wanted to date me. It was horrible. So bear that in mind.

But as I said, if you do really want to go out with her, go for it.
   
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Re: Is this a bad idea? - April 30th 2012, 08:53 AM

Do it, IF you want to go out with her sincerely. Otherwise, no, never!


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Re: Is this a bad idea? - April 30th 2012, 02:56 PM

My advice is the same as what is above dont ask the girl out over some offer to get money if you do it. You are so much better then that I am sure and the girl deserves to be treated better then that being asked out cause of a dare. Now if you do like her and want to go out on a date with her and dont care about the money and genuinly like her then ask her out then. And there is a chance she will say no so just remember that.


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