should I contact him?

[pursuit-of-happiness]

so there is this guy that i slept with and spent a lot of time with the past month but he really hurt me when i knew about the other girls he was seeing. I felt like he had led me on even though he told me we were friends. He would kiss other girls in front of me right after we had spent the night together. After this all went down I wrote him a really blunt letter about how much of an ass he is and it made him really mad. He stopped talking to me after texting me daily. I miss him and his attention and at first I thought i could get him back but now I dont know because he denied my request to hang out. What should I do!? this is all bringing me down

[Skeleton]

I don't think you should do anything. This guy led you on and hurt you, he didn't tell you about the other girls, I'm guessing and it's pretty hurtful of him to sleep with you and everything without telling you first that he was sleeping with other girls.

You might miss him and the attention but there is better guys out there, that will have eyes for you and only you, do you really want to be one of the many girls he has on the go? I wouldn't, especially if I knew there were guys out there that wouldn't do that to me. You'll get over it eventually and find someone new so I'd do that.

[Silhouette]

I agree with Charlie.
If he hurt you and kissed other girls in front of you then you shouldn't put yourself through that again. He doesn't seem to want to pursue a relationship or anything with you, so it would probably end up hurting you in the end. Its easy to miss the attention, but there are other guys out there who will give you that and they won't go out and do stuff with other girls as well. Being patient can pay off.

[Lu82]

nope, this guy dosent deserve you, he used you. You can find a guy that is worth it not this piece.......

[MD8]

You should honestly cut him lose, guys like him are the reason why my future daughter will not be dating until she is out of my house.

But in all honestly you may miss his attention, but its not worth going through that emotional roll coaster. Plus there are plenty of decent guys out there who will respect you and threat you right,.

[pursuit-of-happiness]

I know im done with him but i feel like i need to clear the air for some piece of mind. I just want to say something like "I feel like you are angry with me and I dont want it to be that way."

[Silhouette]

Well if it will make you feel better then I would apologize to him in person for the letter. But after that don't try and get back with him, it isn't worth it in the end.