My Stubborn Ex Boyfriend!

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I was with my ex boyfriend Jay for a year and 6 months. We had our ups and downs. We broke up ONCE and that was only for 7 hours. It was stupid. I don't even count it, tbh.
Anyways. I had went to go see JAY and I was sitting in the car and he comes over to me and hugs me and tells me he loves me and then he tells me that he is hungry and he's gonna leave to get food. And I go "By yourself??" And he goes "YEP." So, I get irritated because I had drove all the way to see him and he's telling me he's leaving. So, he's laughing and he's like "iiiii'mmm leavvinngg nowww. i loooooveee youuu." And I go "quit playing..." So, he goes "i'll text you. I love you!" And I go "If you really knew how I felt I'd stick up my middle finger right now" and I just left.
He ignores me the rest of the day. I try to call. I try to text but no response.
So, I'm getting even more heated.
I finally get in touch with him. He's sleep, and he goes "What? I'm really in a IDC mood..and i'm half sleep." And I go off on him and tell him I'm coming over. I'm yelling. I'm just mad.
So, I get over there and I threaten to break it off with him. And he's really really quiet. And he goes "really?" and then breaks up with me.
I feel really bad because now that I look back on it.. I could've easily just went home... took a breather and let him be, and then apologized for being rude. He even told me when we broke up that he was mad that I just left because he was just kidding around with me.
IDK what was with me that day but I was just irritated. And I feel bad because I really want Jay back.
He took me out a week after we broke up. Open the car door for me, and hugged me, and bought us both lunch at a nice resturaunt. He was touchy feely... and grabbing me and it was really fun. I felt like we were on a date and starting over. He said we'd hang out when he was off again. After that I didn't hear from him. Three days later is the day we're supposed to hang out. So, I call him and he tells me he's got stuff to do for his dad and that he'd text me later. So, he does.. tells me hes gonna come over and then 15 mins later texts me cussing saying hes pissed off that his parents made plans with him and his brother and that he couldnt come over.
I didn't text him the next day or the day after that.
I'm so so so confused as to what I'm supposed to do. Do I apologize to him and try to win him back? or am I supposed to give him space? I mean I'm the one who lost my temper...
He is a very stubborn guy but hes also really sensitive and I know I probably hurt his feelings..
He told me that I still had his heart and so with that I'm just keeping the faith and hope alive..
Please help. I love this guy very much and I need help on winning him back..

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Hey there, sorry you haven't gotten a response yet!

Honestly I would just give him some space at this point. I think he's trying to figure out what he wants right now which is why he's been so hot and cold about your current relationship. Let him come to you instead of trying to chase him and get back together with him. He probably is hurt, so its best to give it some time so he can move on from that.