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Bleh - April 8th 2009, 05:06 AM

Ok, so it's been a while since i've really had feelings for anyone, right?
Well several times every year there are nationals for my taekwondo school and a bunch of people from a school in florida come in. Well, one of those people kicked my ass last year and i came up and talked for a minute, then later one of her friends came up to me and told me that her friend thought i liked her. After hearing that i kinda realized that i did. I couldn't help but admire her whenever i watched her mop up the floor in every ring and that led up to more.
Problem being: she lives in Florida.

Any opinions as to whether i should try to suppress these feelings or go with them? (only hope comes from the fact that my bro-in-law got together with someone in the exact same situation as me and is now married)

Any suggestions as to how?


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Re: Bleh - April 8th 2009, 01:20 PM

I think it depends on how strong your feelings are, and remember that you are only 15.
I'm not saying that your feelings for this girl couldn't turn into something special, but generally, relationships starting at this age, don't last. By all means have some fun, it could turn into something good.
I'm not incredibly sure of the distance in this situation, as I don't know where you are in reference to her, but if it's a distance that you could get to every so often, I;d say once or twice a month, then go for it!
Perhaps talk to her, find out if she'd be interested in a long distance relationship.
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Re: Bleh - April 9th 2009, 02:44 AM

Haha, yeah, i took that all into consideration. I just needed to have some time to mull it over.


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