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never been kissed - January 14th 2013, 04:51 PM

I have never been asked out and I've never had a boyfriend, or been kissed. I was wondering how old you guys were when you had your first kiss etc...
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Re: never been kissed - January 14th 2013, 05:10 PM

Hey there,

I'm unsure of how old you are, but I know that at the age of sixteen, I have never had a relationship, been asked out, or kissed anyone either. I know there are other people, some of them probably even on this site, who haven't been in a relationship at ages higher than sixteen as well.

But, there's nothing to worry about! This part of a person's life happens at different ages for everyone, and there's no need to rush into it. You'll get to experience all of these things someday. If you find a guy that you like, you can even start to build up a friendship with them and see if you can enter a relationship. Not all the time do they need to make the first move. For now, it is okay if you've never been in a relationship or been kissed. Focus on enjoying your life. All of that stuff will come, maybe even when you least expect it!


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Re: never been kissed - January 15th 2013, 08:15 PM


First kiss? I guess about 14 years old. Due to the fact that you did not post your age, I can't really tell you what's what. But I gotta tell you just to bring your confidence a bit higher - boys (from my experience), find it much easier to go out with a woman who did not kiss before. You may think it's embarrassing, but they will find the kiss less stressing, making your first date more smooth. Don't be worried, though. It all comes differently, regardless of who you are.

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Re: never been kissed - January 15th 2013, 08:41 PM

I was seventeen. But that doesn't matter. It'll happen, trust me. You're young, you have your whole life ahead of you. Just because society tells you that you "should have" been kissed by a certain age doesn't mean you have to. Don't stress over it. It isn't that good of an experience anyway. Lots of messiness and confusion, really.

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Re: never been kissed - January 15th 2013, 08:45 PM

I've had a relationship...of sorts. Ish.

But never been kissed and the "relationship" was...well, not really much .
I'm 14, and right now I don't really care about that stuff particularly - enjoy now, and things can happen later!

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Re: never been kissed - January 15th 2013, 09:45 PM

I'm 17 and I've never been kissed as well!

I don't really know how old you are, but I wouldn't worry about it. If you're still in High School like me, then you still have a pretty great shot at getting kissed in College, if not, I'm sure that it'll still happen.

Just have fun, hang out with friends, do what you love to do.
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Re: never been kissed - January 15th 2013, 09:51 PM

My first kiss was at 18, but honestly I haven't had a kiss thats really meant anything yet. as or a relationship, never had one

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Re: never been kissed - January 16th 2013, 02:05 AM

I was 14, but I agree with everyone else here. Who cares? Jst let things happen when they do there's no rush. Don't be pressured into growing up too fast
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Re: never been kissed - January 16th 2013, 08:58 AM

I'm seventeen and I've never been kissed either. I personally don't think there's anything wrong with that. I'd rather have my first kiss be with someone who matters; I don't want to kiss someone just to get the first one over with.
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Re: never been kissed - January 16th 2013, 02:14 PM

I'm 15, had a "thing" but he never once kissed me… well tbh I don't even know what we had between us... I was honestly feeling the same way! Never really having had a relationship is hard when everyone around is dating but college, I've heard is better
Ps: would having ur first kiss at 10 years old (grade 6) be too young???
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Re: never been kissed - January 17th 2013, 09:39 PM

Muah xoxoxo now you have lol I was 18

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