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Sylinagigirox2012 September 8th 2013 04:29 AM

My boyfriend wants to go further but I'm scared
 
Hello! I'm Jules :) and well I finally have the boyfriend of my dreams, he is everything I have ever wanted and more but well I guess being so happy with the relationship we moved very quickly (hit first base on the first date) but well we are approaching our 2 month but I have well already rubbed him through his pants and while that is very enjoyable for the both of us I am perfectly content with this level if exploration for now (he is my first boyfriend) but my boyfriend wishes that I go further and we make skin to skin contact (ie I go in his pants and rub him) I don't want to appear easy but I want to make him feel good
What should I do?
We are both 16* and I told him we should wait at least until our two month
*2 weeks till I turn 16

CrusadingAvenger September 8th 2013 05:00 AM

Re: My boyfriend wants to go further but I'm scared
 
Hey there Jules! :) Well, the one thing that I can tell you is that if your boyfriend wants to go further and you're uncomfortable moving it to that point, I would suggest telling him that you're not ready to go further yet. However, if you feel like you want to go further and you're okay with that, then by all means, go for it. I'll just give you a heads-up though: make sure that you know what you're doing and what you're getting into. I wouldn't suggest doing something that'll end up getting you facing consequences in the long term, but just an FYI and a friendly reminder.

Sylinagigirox2012 September 8th 2013 05:34 AM

Re: My boyfriend wants to go further but I'm scared
 
I decided to talk to him and he was very supportive and understanding, he said he obviously enjoys it very much but he doesn't want there to be awkwardness in our relationship because he wants us to last for a long time (I love it when he says that <3) I'm still scared that my bad habit of never saying no to not dissapoint/appear like I can handle anything/everything to appear perfect will betray me someday…


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