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Any idea ? - September 17th 2013, 03:33 PM

Well im trying to meet this girl I dont talk to , but she seems like a nice person and I think I like her. I invited her to help me with a song... what should I do?
Im a bit shy ?

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Re: Any idea ? - September 22nd 2013, 06:03 PM

Hey, Cristian! First, it might help to learn a little bit more about her and/or her interests. You invited her to help you with a song - does that mean she's in choir/band? Does she seem to be interested in the same genre of music as you are? Let us know how she responds to the invitation. If she doesn't seem keen on that (but is still friendly toward you), try taking a different approach. Do you share a class with her? If so, you could ask her to join you in studying for a test. Does she bring coffee with her to school? If so, you could invite her to join you for coffee before/after school sometime next week. I understand it can be really hard to find common ground with a person you've barely spoken to, but once you find something that allows you to connect with her in a more meaningful way, it gives you the opportunity to learn more about her via conversation and to come up with ideas for future outings (and possibly dates, if things go well!). =)

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Re: Any idea ? - September 22nd 2013, 06:23 PM

Like robin said ^ get to know her more, talk to her. If your shy in person, talking online at first might help get to know her a little better. You'll have to get over your fear of talking to her if you want to be able to see her and talk to her more.
If she doesn't respond to music, maybe ask her to go get a coffee or something with you? Study together?

I wish you the best of luck.
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