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Question He wants to kiss me..? - February 8th 2015, 01:03 AM

I'm 14. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for a little bit over a month. For about a week and a half he's been telling me that he wants to kiss me, and today one of our friends told me that he's going to kiss me on Monday after school. I don't know if I'm ready to kiss him.. I mean we've only been dating for a few weeks and.. I'm kind of scared. I don't know what to do. I'm worried that if I tell him I don't want to kiss him then he'll think I don't like him..
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Re: He wants to kiss me..? - February 8th 2015, 04:23 AM

hey, I'm new too! ok personally i think you should just tell him. if he really likes you, he'll wait. i promise. be safe!
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Re: He wants to kiss me..? - February 8th 2015, 02:13 PM

Hey there,

Don't feel put under pressure by your boyfriend or your friends, if you don't feel ready to kiss him then just be honest with him. There is nothing wrong with asking to go at your own pace and if he doesn't appreciate or understand that then it is his loss. Do whatever makes you happy!

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Re: He wants to kiss me..? - February 8th 2015, 04:00 PM


In a relationship, you have to be honest and communicate. If this is something you're not comfortable with, tell him. Hopefully he'll be good about it and understand. You shouldn't have to do anything you don't want to -- don't be afraid to stand up to him just because he's your boyfriend.

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Re: He wants to kiss me..? - February 8th 2015, 06:38 PM

It's important to maintain your personal boundaries and not push yourself, or let someone else, push you to do things you don't want to do. If you're not ready to kiss yet, you're not ready to kiss yet, and that's okay. I would suggest being honest with your boyfriend and telling him what you said here: that you really do like him, but you're not ready to kiss him yet. Hopefully he will be understanding and respectful of that boundary, but if not, it may be prudent to reconsider if you want to be with someone who wants to push you past what you're comfortable with.

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