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Arrow Lacking closure. - February 8th 2015, 04:43 AM

Ask any one of my friends and they'll say he's an asshole. Ask me and I'll simply say it's complicated. Because it is.

When I moved to that school and up until recently I had (kind of??) been in love with a boy, one of my friends.
Long story short, boy and girl are friends, girl teases boy, boy teases girl, school passes, boy "dates" girl, girl "dumps" boy, boy kisses girl, and girl is broken hearted.

He was my first kiss, march 1, 2014, the night before i turned 15. Rude. He goes to a different school (high school) and supposedly got a girl pregnant.
I'm just feeling a little hurt and lost because he told me he loved me and then never showed it. Advice appreciated.
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Re: Lacking closure. - February 8th 2015, 02:09 PM

Hey there,
I understand things are hard for you right now, and this is all bound to be upsetting for you. Have you spoken to this guy about how you're feeling and asked him about the rumours that are going round about him getting this other girl pregnant? It could be a case of these just being nasty rumours, it may be that they are true, but you're never going to know the truth unless you ask. I think you should try to concentrate on moving on and doing things that you enjoy, go out with your friends, go out and do things that interest you.

I wish you the best of luck.

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