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Girls - May 29th 2009, 02:18 AM

This thread is mainly for the purpose of females to read.

I'm not good with talking to girls, and I'm very picky on who I chose, and I'm a sort of attractive person, not football star, but I am built, etc.

I'm just not good with talking to them, there are all these girls in my PE class, or CJ class that just look so beautiful, and I don't know how to introduce myself, bring up a conversation.

Yes, I'm the type of idiot that would add you on myspace and say "Hey, whats up", and you won't reply, and I'm stuck clueless.

Please, give me advice, in your opinion, if a attractive man went up to you, or how would you want to meet him, have a conversation with him, and so on?
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Re: Girls - May 29th 2009, 10:10 AM

To be perfectly honest, I hate being hit on, there's nothing worse for me. I tend to do the hitting on
But not every girl is like me. I know when I like someone I flirt, and I like them to flirt back, smiling is awesome, and subtle touching, like an arm, or shoulder is always good. Conversations should be light, and funny, you should be able to make her laugh. Now this may sound like a lot, but when you get into the flow of the conversation and mood around you, it'll take barely any effort.
Though I must say, talking to girls you know, or at least have seen around in school, and who know who you are is going to be much easier than talking to strangers.
Ask them questions about themselves, not too personal, but get them talking, practise makes perfect, so just keep talking to girls!

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Re: Girls - May 29th 2009, 11:29 AM

girls are just people! talk to them normally about stuff in their lives etc. If youre really nervous practise with girls youre not threatened by.

And you dont have to stick to the hot girls, the cool girls get hotter when you get to know them.

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