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Worst break up reasons.. - June 9th 2009, 09:55 AM

I'm curious, whats the worst reason you were given when you broke up with a partner.

I got "I don't know" from a guy, but he told all his mates (who I'm also friends with) that it was because I'm too pale...
Prick.


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Re: Worst break up reasons.. - June 9th 2009, 12:46 PM

"your to good for me"

.... yeah ok.

ps:I like "pale" girls xD


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Re: Worst break up reasons.. - June 9th 2009, 01:00 PM

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ps:I like "pale" girls xD


LOL

It was hypocritical of him though, since he is also pale... I suppose he likes the orange look though
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Re: Worst break up reasons.. - June 9th 2009, 01:07 PM

Dale Winton....*runs and hides*


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Re: Worst break up reasons.. - June 9th 2009, 01:18 PM

Lol, as weird as this may... seem, my ex was too cowardly to give a reason, infact she never even dumped me, she said she was thinking about it... and then started dating another guy :L... And that sounds like a short gap inbetween the two, and it was... about 12 hours or so lmao!



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Re: Worst break up reasons.. - June 9th 2009, 01:20 PM

When I broke up with my ex, even though it was mutual, he told me that "it just wasn't working for him" which was fine. Until he told all his friends I was too clingy. Thankfully most of them knew it was him who phoned me every night. He is some measure of an idiot.


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Re: Worst break up reasons.. - June 9th 2009, 01:52 PM

The worst break-up reason I ever got was two weeks into the relationship and he said: "I just can't see myself doing anything sexual with you because I respect you too much, and I want to get laid before I graduate. So let's just be friends."

Then he called me back an hour later and grovelled til I took him back. And now we've been together for over a year. lol
   
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Re: Worst break up reasons.. - June 9th 2009, 02:17 PM

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The worst break-up reason I ever got was two weeks into the relationship and he said: "I just can't see myself doing anything sexual with you because I respect you too much, and I want to get laid before I graduate. So let's just be friends."

Then he called me back an hour later and grovelled til I took him back. And now we've been together for over a year. lol
ha!! Don't quite no what to make of that reason... reminds me of my friend getting rejected by this guy because 'she reminded him too much of his sister'.... ouch.

Um, generally when I break up with people I give them vague, euphemistic reasons like 'it's not working out.' I was never in a relationship serious enough to not be able to get away with that one before. :P
   
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Re: Worst break up reasons.. - June 9th 2009, 03:06 PM

I had one ex who basically started cutting contact with me, and I don't think he would have broken up with me if I didn't confront him. He told me he "couldn't do it anymore" and walked away. According to his friends he called me "clingy" as well, even though we rarely ever hung out outside of school, hung out with his friends in the morning and ate lunch with his friends before seeing me. I almost never saw him.


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Re: Worst break up reasons.. - June 9th 2009, 03:54 PM

the famous "its not you it me"
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Re: Worst break up reasons.. - June 9th 2009, 04:23 PM

well this is not my worst break up reason, but my friends.

she told him, "you are just too nice. i need something different, you understand, right?"

i was like, WHAAAT?


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Re: Worst break up reasons.. - June 9th 2009, 05:11 PM

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"You're a great guy, but we don't do anything but sit at my house or yours and talk with our parents or watch TV. I need some kind of excitement." Me to Ben

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"I was dared to date you for at least 48 hours. I got my $50. Can I go now?" Me to Chris

"Look if u want to write me in basic thats fine and who knows maybe in the years to come once u mature maybe we can work but not now" Mark to me

This is the one who cheated on me. The one who was so immature that he didn't even shower unless he was told to. The one who was always telling me he was sick of spending money on me (a pack of cigarettes or two 'till I could buy them myself) and yet the reason we broke up was because he went broke in South Padre, Texas with 3 of his Army buddies drinking, gambling, etc over spring break. I was in school. Oh, yes... Sick of spending money... Stupid. Stupid. Stupid. >_<


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Re: Worst break up reasons.. - June 9th 2009, 05:27 PM

I got "I just dopn't really want a girlfriend at the moment'. He came out as gay pretty soon after.


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Re: Worst break up reasons.. - June 9th 2009, 05:41 PM

A week after asking me to move in with him and asked if we were still going strong when i finish uni - to marry him. o_O
"I can't afford to be in a relationship"

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Re: Worst break up reasons.. - June 9th 2009, 06:59 PM

I've never really had any odd ones....but the stupidest one I ever heard was from someone close to me's boyfriend to her: "God told me to break up with you."

We're pretty sure we can write him off as a complete idiot.


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Re: Worst break up reasons.. - June 9th 2009, 08:06 PM

The worst reason I've ever had for a break up was when my ex didn't have the balls to tell me that he just doesn't want me anymore. He made his parents as a reason, said they didn't like me when I know they did -__-


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Re: Worst break up reasons.. - June 9th 2009, 08:15 PM

Matt, now my husband, broke up with me a few weeks after we started dating because he was turning 18 and afraid of what people would say about us being together. Probably not too terribly stupid considering I was 14 at the time, but I was to turn 15 in a few weeks anyway. Three days after he broke up with me, he decided that it was stupid and that everything was going to be alright.


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Re: Worst break up reasons.. - June 9th 2009, 10:17 PM

I've never had funny break-ups, I've been broken up with to spare my feelings, though he asked me back out a month later, and I turned him down

I prefer turning people down for romantic endeavors. It's more fun, and less feelings involved


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Re: Worst break up reasons.. - June 10th 2009, 05:09 AM

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The worst reason I've ever had for a break up was when my ex didn't have the balls to tell me that he just doesn't want me anymore. He made his parents as a reason, said they didn't like me when I know they did -__-
i had the same thing happen to me about 3 years ago..but i'm glad cuz now i have the most wonderful guy ever!


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Re: Worst break up reasons.. - June 10th 2009, 08:25 AM

My current boyfriend and I 'broke up' one time and he was like 'I'm not breaking up with you, but yet we're not together, but I'm not seeing anyone else.' I found it to be the most confusing break up line ever.




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Re: Worst break up reasons.. - June 10th 2009, 03:10 PM

After a two year long relationship, he turned around and said that he wasn't ready for a relationship. It took him two years to work this out....?!

Also, me and my ex are still friends, so our break up was more of a joke. I met him through a pantomime we both used to do, and he said that he just couldn't live knowing that he was wearing make-up the first time we met xD
   
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Re: Worst break up reasons.. - June 11th 2009, 06:44 AM

He said "I was too nice to him"


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Re: Worst break up reasons.. - June 11th 2009, 06:54 AM

Because his best friend said that relationships were stupid. Came back to me a couple days later after stepping on my heart, only to step on it again a week after when he broke up with me finally. [I made it easier by convincing myself they were more than friends and that's why he split haha]


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Re: Worst break up reasons.. - June 11th 2009, 07:12 AM

Over voicemail....
'I don't think we should go out because you've so obviously been at someone's c*ck behind my back. Oh, and cos your gay.'

..... need I explain more? Yeahh, I woke up this morning to find this in my voicemail from my boyfriend... well ex now i guess.


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Re: Worst break up reasons.. - June 11th 2009, 07:17 AM

One of my exs were the lame, "I'm not sure if I'm ready to have a girlfriend, let me think about it and I'll tell you later, but we should stay friends." Not that long after I saw him at the mall with a girlfriend and two months after we broke up he almost had a kid. He was only 14.

Then my most recent ex at first didn't tell me why. Like, we had a fight the night before, I had to think about if I wanted to stay. We talked in the morning and worked things out and out of no where, he was like, "I don't want to date you anymore."
Yeah, turns out he was using me to get over a girl(like most guys do with me.) because he was friends were her and didn't want to ruin the friendship, but he loved my body. (Which totally makes up for hurting me. -Sarcasm-) He said there were more reasons, but never told me them. We still talk sometimes.


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Re: Worst break up reasons.. - June 11th 2009, 10:08 AM

Well, there was the, "Uhhhhhh, I kinda just wanna be friends. [pause] ....I'm sorry?" That was pretty good.

Another great one... I asked him to just tell me if he was over me since I was already going through a rough patch and I was sick of wondering what was going on with him... his response: "Well I think I'm over you but I don't want to ruin your night more..."
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Re: Worst break up reasons.. - June 12th 2009, 02:20 AM

Well with my most recent girlfriend, Brittany she said "Jeremy, i like you alot and i truly do. but i'm going to be a senior next year and i need to start thinking about my future and i don't see you in it.(I was a sophmore and she was a junior) the next few days she gets back with her exe and asks me for advice on what to do with him. I'm like wtf
   
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Re: Worst break up reasons.. - June 12th 2009, 02:43 AM

I've always been the one to do the breaking up, not the other way around. =P My reason? I found someone else. The REAL reason? I didn't want to stay in a physically and sexually abusive relationship.

My friend's ex gave the following reason (paraphrased):
Because I'm afraid that, now that you're going to a community college (vs. high school), you're going to meet SOME GIRL and have a one-night stand with her.

This was three months into their long-distance relationship. I think she just wasn't ready for that kind of commitment, and had to come up with a bullcrap excuse (simply saying that she couldn't handle long-distance, or that she wasn't ready, would've been perfectly fine with me... but attacking his character like that was a low, low blow).
   
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Re: Worst break up reasons.. - June 12th 2009, 04:47 AM

I've never been broken up with. Reading these makes me feel lucky. I dont think i could deal with what some of those idiots said! lol


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Re: Worst break up reasons.. - June 12th 2009, 05:00 AM

Haven't really had any cheesy break up reasons but my most serious relationship he told me that he didn't want to be with me anymore because his high school crush professed her love to him and he wanted to date her and he also professed his love for her too. Oh but I still care and love you though, lets still be friends

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Re: Worst break up reasons.. - June 12th 2009, 07:45 PM

"I don't know."

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Re: Worst break up reasons.. - June 13th 2009, 08:19 AM

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Haha... I hate that excuse. If my boyfriend ever even says "your too good for me" as a compliment I kind of take it as a "damn I wish you'd leave me already" but actually breaking up with someone for that reason... it seems like a pretty BS excuse.



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Re: Worst break up reasons.. - June 13th 2009, 07:30 PM

"You need to be more mature"
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Re: Worst break up reasons.. - June 13th 2009, 07:55 PM

"You've been acting weird since I went to Oregon." Nick to me, after I found out he cheated on me in an airport in California.

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"I'm doing this for you, because I think it's what you want"

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Re: Worst break up reasons.. - June 15th 2009, 02:16 AM

"You're too nice and you care about me too much. I want a bitch."

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Re: Worst break up reasons.. - June 15th 2009, 02:41 AM

Well after his friend broke up with me on the phone for him.... I called a week after to find out the reason why and he said " I just not feeling it anymore". LOL. Mind you, this dude was like 19 at the time, you would think maturity would kick in by then, inorder to break up with a girl by yourself...
   
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Re: Worst break up reasons.. - June 15th 2009, 03:03 AM

I think the most obnoxious ones are "It's not you...it's me." (or worse: "It's not me..it's you".

But the worst I've ever gotten was because he was dating someone else, because he got tired of waiting around for me. How nice.


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Re: Worst break up reasons.. - June 15th 2009, 04:37 AM

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"My friends tease me too much about you."
Had that. To which my response was "Why the FUCK do you care what they think?"

"[His ex] wants to work things out. It's what I want, I just never thought it would happen. I'm sorry, I never meant to hurt you." Over a text message, which I've always thought is the worst way to break up with someone.

I've used these two on exes myself:

"I think we both know this is over, so let's just stop pretending that it's something more." Which was the truth, and he agreed.

"I just don't like you that much." I'm not proud of this one. But he kept asking why, and the nice untrue excuses weren't cutting it.

I've never been broken up with face to face; both times it's been over text. Which is weird, because I try very hard to break up face to face...it's just the right thing to do.



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Re: Worst break up reasons.. - June 15th 2009, 09:14 PM

It's not really the reason why he broke up with me that was dumb, it was the WAY.

He was a year younger than me and I had gone into high school and on my second day of school, HIS COUSIN texted me, telling me that he couldn't be with me anymore because I was in high school and he knew he would fall into temptation with me around and he cared too much about me to let that happen.

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Re: Worst break up reasons.. - June 17th 2009, 03:28 AM

I don't know if mines the worst but i got this from my ex bf of almost two years: "I just don't know how not to be mean to you" -.-
   
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