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The Psuedo Boyfriend - June 29th 2009, 05:02 PM

Okay so I've got this guy who thinks he's my boyfriend, but well he isn't. We went on two dates back in February, which were nothing special. Does two mediocre dates automatically make you a couple? I mean seriously we didn't even hold hands. So next thing I know he starts calling me 'babe', telling all his friends we're a couple, and writing these long melodramatic love notes. So I avoided him as much as possible but that didn't go so well... it's a small school and there aren't any good hiding places. I hoped he'd go away over the summer but no. He keeps calling my house trying to set up a date. How do I get rid of him? I don't want to be too nasty, he's an okay guy just not very bright.
   
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Re: The Psuedo Boyfriend - June 29th 2009, 05:10 PM

Just tell him you're not interested. Be kind, but firm so that he gets the picture. Just let him know that you don't feel the same way, and you don't want to string him along, which is the truth, and he would appreciate that more than any story concocted.


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Re: The Psuedo Boyfriend - June 29th 2009, 05:26 PM

I agree, tell him no offence but you just didn't feel anything there and you have no interest in being a couple. Tell him you guys can remain friends but this obsessive stalkerish behaviour needs to stop and that he needs to take a hint.





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Re: The Psuedo Boyfriend - June 29th 2009, 05:33 PM

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Re: The Psuedo Boyfriend - June 29th 2009, 06:02 PM

And if he doesn't get the picture, be nasty.



   
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