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Unhappy should i send her a birthday message? - July 30th 2009, 03:40 PM

Well 2 months ago i met a girl, we get on really well started getting closer and closer but a month ago things went wrong, she told me she hasnt got over her ex who lives 3 hours away.....

so we speak and stuff and i suggest mabye i should let her have some time for a while to sort things out cause im not making things easier so i do.

but this weekend its her birthday and i really wanted to be there for it but its just akward so do you think i should send her a text or an e-mail wishing her happy birthday with a message or just leave it? cause i am constantley thinking about her i cant her out of my head everywhere i turn i see her name.

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Re: should i send her a birthday message? - July 30th 2009, 03:47 PM

I'd send a message saying "Happy birthday, have a good one" or something along those lines, to show that you remembered and care and everything.
   
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Re: should i send her a birthday message? - July 30th 2009, 04:15 PM

Seconded... No harm in a Happy Birthday aye?



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Re: should i send her a birthday message? - July 30th 2009, 05:05 PM

GO FOR IT YEA ..Evebody loves sombody telling them happy birthday
   
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Re: should i send her a birthday message? - July 30th 2009, 07:14 PM

Definitely. I wouldn't add anything else, though. You don't want to make it too heavy, you just want to show her that you remembered and that you're still there.



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Re: should i send her a birthday message? - July 30th 2009, 09:43 PM

agreed, that would let her know you remembered and care.
it will prolly make her happy (:
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Re: should i send her a birthday message? - July 31st 2009, 10:11 PM

You should do whatever feels right, but although your intentions are sincere and really sweet, it seems like "being there" for her and sending her a message is a waste of your energy. The birthday wishes are really thoughtful and nice, but you are just putting yourself out there for someone who is not in the place to return your feelings, and in the end this kind of behavior is only going to hurt you. There's nothing wrong with being friends, you don't have to ignore her or anything, but since she does not return your feelings I think it would be best to try and move on. Do you think she would do the same for you??? Or do you think she would put her energy into her ex?

You sound really thoughtful and would make lots of girls REALLY happy Maybe this time would be best spend trying to find one of those girls that will be a better match for you.
   
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Re: should i send her a birthday message? - August 1st 2009, 12:50 AM

Send her a happy birthday message just to show her you remembered..she might like it


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Re: should i send her a birthday message? - August 1st 2009, 04:32 AM

i think that you should deffinatly send her a happy birthday message =] i think that would make her very happy.
   
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