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i like him but he drinks - September 8th 2009, 11:14 PM

i like this guy. he's a year older than me, he's a big football player and i'm a little nerd (but i do play volleyball), and he drinks and i don't. i don't want to drink until i'm legal, but he drinks a lot anyway. i don't know what to do. i think he likes me but i'm so worried...i don't want to even go to homecoming with him (if the situation arises) because i don't want to be dragged into something. is this wrong?????????????


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Re: i like him but he drinks - September 9th 2009, 01:13 AM

Just tell him that you don't want to be around drinking.

Hopefully he respects your wishes.

It isn't wrong that you do not want to drink. I don't drink alcohol and I am 19, nothing wrong with that.
   
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Re: i like him but he drinks - September 9th 2009, 01:29 AM

It is your decision whether or not to drink. I would tell him that you do not want to be around drinking, but really like him and would like to hang out at homecoming. If he does not want to respect your wishes than he isn't worth your time. He should be considerate if he likes you enough. There is nothing wrong with not wanting to drink either, its just a personal choice.


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