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Unhappy What to do? - October 9th 2009, 03:58 PM

Ok so there's this guy J that I care about alot. It's just that in the past it hasn't really worked out. The first time J's parents made him brake up with me. The second time J was injured(witch I didn't know until way later on) and we lost contact. And well we almost went out again but my previous bf B was trying to be with me. I had to choose between them and it was hard but when I had finally made the choice I chose B witch I thought was the right choice until recently. Idk I always kind of regreted choosing B over J a little. J is such a better person but I had this weird urge to be with B. I always found it hard to walk past J in the hallway or anywhere else without being with him even when I was with B and now that B and I broke up the feeling has gottten stronger. I'm not sure if J will want to be with me anymore though. What should I do? Help me please!


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Re: What to do? - October 9th 2009, 08:58 PM

If you have this feeling you would like to see yourself with J, then all you can do is ask. If you think you can take that he may not say yes, and you know you arent using J as a rebound after your break up with B, then why not approach him with your feelings? You'll never know if you dont try.


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Re: What to do? - October 9th 2009, 09:37 PM

...?ok thanks


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