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either im in denial or just never really cared about him - October 25th 2009, 11:20 PM

at the end of july this guy asked me out in a text message and said he wanted to keep us a secret because my parents dont like him
so all through august we never saw each other we just texted each other everyday

when i saw him labor day weekend we had our first kiss and it was great
once school started we never talked in the hallways, he never looked at me, or texted much after that

the next weekend we were alone in a hot tub and made out for 20min. after that it was the same routine at school until 2 weeks later when we were camping together and i snuck in his tent and made out with him and got really close

at our homecoming dance i was looking for him to see if he wanted to dance and in the first 20 min of the dance i saw him kissing another girl and immediatley after the dance broke up with him in a text message

i have not cried at all and everyday since hc i have not stopped smiling because i only existed around him when we made out

since we are in the same venture crew (coed scout troop) we will be alone a lot more and cannot laugh at how awkward it will be

what do you all think? should i feel bad? or should i be glad to be rid of a man-whore?
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Re: either im in denial or just never really cared about him - October 25th 2009, 11:40 PM

what?!. no, of course you shouldn't feel bad. he made out with another girl in front of you.. you were totally right to ditch him! too many girls put up with guys who don't respect them, so good on you for getting rid of him. it might be slightly awkward when you see him, but he's the one in the wrong so just act normal and don't let him get you down. be glad you're happily single! :]


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Re: either im in denial or just never really cared about him - October 26th 2009, 05:32 AM

I agree with Elle.

There's no reason you should feel bad at all! If you don't, then that's great, and you're one step ahead! What he did was wrong, and you certainly didn't deserve it. You seem aware of the fact he's the one in the wrong, he's the one who's the douche in the situation, and that's great. I say if it doesn't bother you, then it doesn't bother you. You're better off being rid of him and you're far ahead in the game to have realised that already. Like Elle said, enjoy being happily single! And don't let him get to you.
   
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Re: either im in denial or just never really cared about him - October 30th 2009, 12:18 AM

ok i feel great knowing people understand how awkward it felt breaking up with him and all my friends told me to avoid him before we were going out so i probably should have listened but he was my first bf
but im single again and loving it!!
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