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Exclamation HELP! - December 6th 2009, 06:21 AM

I met this guy not too long ago. we started talking everyday practically 24-7. he said he really liked me and that i was the closest thing to what he's always wanted. I felt the same about him. I ended up moving in with him but some family stuff happened forcing me to come back. He told me that he was falling in love with me. but now that im back. we never talk. we aren't in a relationship anymore. he has a lot going on so he said that the faster he gets it together the faster he can get things going with me again. I asked him today if he still wants everything and he said "still wants everything yes". he was supposed to come today to return my stuff and never called or came. he signed online and i tried IMing him but no response. I don't get it I also tried calling him but his phone is turned off.

someone please help. I dont know what to think. I tend to over-think things and worry too much. maybe he really is busy trying to get stuff done and im overreacting? I dont know HELP


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Re: HELP! - December 6th 2009, 08:38 AM

If he's still saying that he loves you, then he probably is just busy trying to get stuff done. Maybe he needs the time alone to get through these things and doesn't want you involved in case you get hurt? As for his lack of response to your IMs.. maybe he wasn't there at the time? Besides, if his phone is turned off, it must mean that he isn't taking other calls either.. so he can't just be avoiding you. These are just suggestions though.. so I'm not really sure. There's nothing you can do really, unless you get in contact with him, but take his word for it. I hope it works out though :/

By the way, when you say that family stuff happened.. do you mean stuff with his family or with yours?


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Re: HELP! - December 6th 2009, 08:15 PM

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If he's still saying that he loves you, then he probably is just busy trying to get stuff done. Maybe he needs the time alone to get through these things and doesn't want you involved in case you get hurt? As for his lack of response to your IMs.. maybe he wasn't there at the time? Besides, if his phone is turned off, it must mean that he isn't taking other calls either.. so he can't just be avoiding you. These are just suggestions though.. so I'm not really sure. There's nothing you can do really, unless you get in contact with him, but take his word for it. I hope it works out though :/

By the way, when you say that family stuff happened.. do you mean stuff with his family or with yours?
well he only said that he was falling in love with me once. I wrote him a really long message saying practically all of my feelings and he just didn't say anything back. He just won't talk to me. I don't get it still. and what I mean by family stuff is his family.


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Re: HELP! - December 6th 2009, 08:51 PM

I need more advice. PM me or something..


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Re: HELP! - December 6th 2009, 08:58 PM

Unfortunately, it just sounds like you're going to have to wait until you can contact him, because until then you can't be sure of anything and you'll make yourself panic more.
If he's having family issues, that definitely sounds like it would explain his phone being off, etc. I don't think it's because of you especially.
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Re: HELP! - December 6th 2009, 09:07 PM

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Unfortunately, it just sounds like you're going to have to wait until you can contact him, because until then you can't be sure of anything and you'll make yourself panic more.
If he's having family issues, that definitely sounds like it would explain his phone being off, etc. I don't think it's because of you especially.
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True. But I just don't understand how family issues can cause a guy to be that way. He's also been dealing with court stuff too. he told me that we could talk still but when i tried he would either say a few words or say nothing. Now he's not even saying a few words. he also was supposed to come and visit and bring me my stuff but never called or showed up. But I did ask him earlier that day if he still wanted everything and he said "still wanting everything yes". by me going after him and trying to talk to him only making things worse?

Im really confused.


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Re: HELP! - December 8th 2009, 05:07 PM

Hey there iamraq. lillybug818 is correct. You just have to wait until when he can talk to you. Don't be nervous or confused just stay calm. Let him start talking, let him start things off but keep in contact with him and just grant him some space.
   
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Re: HELP! - December 8th 2009, 09:38 PM

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Hey there iamraq. lillybug818 is correct. You just have to wait until when he can talk to you. Don't be nervous or confused just stay calm. Let him start talking, let him start things off but keep in contact with him and just grant him some space.
yeah we started talking again. I just hope he still has the feelings he had for me and everything ends up working out.


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