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January 2nd 2010, 07:15 PM
Hey guys!
Hope everyone had good holidays! Well I'm not 100% sure if this is the right place but... Here's the thing... There is a guy in my college who I think its gorgeous and he's nice,funny! We recently had a work nights out and we ended up sleeping together (drunk) We gave numbers, and recently we met up, had sex again (sober) I like this guy, but don't want a relationship, does he seem like he likes me? Does it sound like a friends with benifits situation? If not..how can I turn it into one?! ( I don't want anyone saying he's using me, since I'm happy with way things are) Help xx She aches, just like a woman, she breaks, just like a little girl.
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Re: guy situation?! -
January 2nd 2010, 08:56 PM
Obviously this is my own opinion only, but I'd say you should stop doing this because the chances are he could have feelings for you and might want more.. just to get hurt. Discuss this with him though, see what he says and then go from there..
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January 2nd 2010, 09:39 PM
You need to talk to him.. if you're happy to not really have a relationship and still sleep with him (hey I wouldn't do it but works for some people) and he's fine with that then cool. You haven't really given us any indication of whether he might think of it as a 'relationship'; I guess that would depend on how much he tries to get in touch with you/how much hanging out you do without sex.
Why not just come straight out with the whole 'friends with benefits' thing and see if he agrees. If he wants a relationship though and you think there's no chance at all then you should stop sleeping with him.. |
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January 2nd 2010, 09:45 PM
Nope this doesn’t sound like any serious relationship if that’s what you’re asking. It just sounds like to collage students enjoy each other.
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January 3rd 2010, 01:02 AM
Well its hard to tell without knowing the details of what kind of guy he is and how much time you spent together without having sex etc.
But I think you should just talk to him, be honest about how you feel and find out how he feels. He might feel the same and want the same, but he might think it could turn into something more and if thats not what you want then you should be honest. |
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January 3rd 2010, 01:09 AM
This really doesn't sound like he'd think it to be serious, in all honesty he probably thinks the same as you =/
But just to clarify the matter you should definitely take the time to talk to him about it. 'And in the garden, lust began The animal instinct, the wanton man She fed him with a hunger, an appetite And fillin' with emotion he took a bite' Def Leppard - Women |
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